My girlfriend gets mad if I don't have sex with her, but not vice versa, WHY?

Whenever my girlfriend doesn't feel like intercourse, and I am, I'm okay with it, and I deal with it. She, however, gets mad when the situation is reversed and complains about how it makes her feel ugly and that it is messed up for guys to not want to have sex 24/7. This seems like an odd double standard. Women, please explain why this exists, and the fairness in it if there is any?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • A lot of females feel that all males fall under the stereotype of the guy who only cares about sex. She is used to men being this way, and now that she has found someone different it is hard to believe that you care about her emotional needs before sex. I suggest you sit down and talk with her, let her know that not all men are the same. Tell her how beautiful you think she is and let her know that you care about her deeply. If she isn't in the mood for it, let her know you care enough about her to wait until she is ready, and that is what real men do not boys.

  • no fairness sorry but tell her to grow up sex is only fun when both of you want each other If that doesn't work tell her to do whatever she wants while you lay there and see how much she likes it

Most Helpful Guy

  • There is no fairness in it. She is holding you up to a double standard, and you need to take a stand against it. Tell her that what she's doing is not fair, and that you don't like it. She's being emotionally manipulative to do what she wants. Her "sex 24/7" comment is blatantly disregarding the instances where she doesn't feel like it. Tell her that you're not going to take it, and try to work it out. If she doesn't want to work it out, then it's up to you to either deal with it or leave her.

    • +1 Well put, I feel no need to comment now, although it would help me get to my next 20 dollar amazon card quicker. o.O

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