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Girls, What are your advices for a couple who will try anal sex for the first time?

Please your experiences for aan enjoyable and safe ansl sex.
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  • Clean up, butter up, and don't rush. It's no fun to pull out a brown dick, so use an enema to clean out the back door. Don't overuse it, that can risk making a leaky mess build up in storage and leak out during the fun. One or two bulbs of water at the most. You just want to clear out what would have been in your way. When you start having fun, focus on forplay first. Both of you need to warm up and relax. Especially her. That hole is a lot tighter than you'd think. Use some sort of oil or lube to loosen up the hole at first. Tease the hole with a finger before you start to slowly work your way in. Get her comfortable with each new size you go up in. Part of one finger. A full finger. 2 fingers. 3 finger. Stretch while you're in to open her up for the main tool. Have fun

    • Whats your position advice also?

  • First rule of anal: you've never got enough lube. Get water based lube too and have a bowel movement beforehand- fingering butt in shower can help make it cleaner as well. With lube You can always add more to make it more comfortable. Start out slow and apply lube using fingers and work your way through fingers from 1 to 2 ensuring she is relaxed and making sure lube is topped up throughout. When properly relaxed and stretched gently, and slowly (using condom and more lube) push into her. Or better let her move onto you.
    Patience, lube and care are most important.

    • Whats yiur advice for position? Do you advice anal plugs during foreplay?

    • Position is tough and depends upon what she likes. I personally either do doggy or i lay on my side and then my partner gently slides in, ask her to figure out whats more comfortable for her- certain body positions can cause the sphincter to be tighter making it more painful, she needs to be in a relaxed and untight position. Also definitely use anal plugs if you've got them. I'd recommend using them a few times before you decide to do full anal, build up to it. That way its not so much for her to cope with in one go.

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  • Nature have design pleasure in sex to produce children so that life is everlasting on earth. Child can not be produced through anal, and so it is not according to design nature has. Handjob and Blowjob is O K as foreplay - but anal is not good anyway.

    • thanks but we want to do it not for baby just for good time

  • I've yet to experience anal that is enjoyable so I can't really give you advice on how to accomplish that.

    However, what I can say that may help keep you from having any bad experiences... don't rush it. As other posts have mentioned, take it slow. Don't look at doing anal, not your first time, at least, as something that if you go at a somewhat normal pace, it'll be quick and painless. The backdoor doesn't work like that and if the girl is not fully comfortable and into it, it'll be tight as a mofo plus get her adrenaline through the roof in a not so good way.

    Might help to get her to cum via oral or something beforehand so that her muscles have less tension in them, too.

    • thanks a lot. whats your advice as position?

    • Each time I tried, we did it in doggy. Afterwards, I read that it's apparently best to do it with her on top. It's a lot more personal than doggy, plus she'll get to control the pace/depth and all completely.

    • can i ask something in pm?

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  • Buy a nice water based lube.

    She should have had a solid bowel movement that day or the day before and not have eaten much that day.
    No anal on diarrhea or soft poop day

    Start out with the usual foreplay
    Then add lube to your fingers and her butt and finger her ass.
    Start with one finger, then move to two fingers
    Make sure she is very relaxed
    Once you guys feel ready put on a condom, lube up and take it slow
    Be gentle and communicate

    • Great expl. Which positions you advice?

    • For anal? Doggy

  • Communicate with her, see if she is doing fine during the process. Go slow. And you'll need a lot of lube. But most importantly, you require a lot of patience since its the first time.
    Be safe and best wishes

    • Whats your position advice?

    • Doggie

    • How often we should try do you think?

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  • Go S to the L O W

    • Sorry i didn't understand

    • go slow and let her tell you what to do

  • Lube... lube... lube... lube. if your with someone you trust... tell them to be gentle... just take it slow... and... seriously... lube... lube... lube... lube!

    • I will do it with wife. Whats your fav position advice for anal?

  • Before: Douche.

    During: Stretch, time, lube. No switching between holes. Same rules regardless of receptive partner's sex.

    After: Expect farting. (Long-term) Kegels.

  • use a lot of spit or lube. A LOT! and then put it in slowly. Start off with the tip first and just keep spitting on it every time you put it in father in.

  • Don't

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