You're boyfriend refuses to go down on you even though that's the only way that you can orgasm, but is still willing to get blow jobs from you? That's a pretty sh*tty double standard, especially since that is the only way that you can have an orgasm. If he's not willing to take an interest in what pleases you, I can't imagine that he thinks that highly of you and the fact that you are more than willing to give up that aspect of a sexual relationship speaks volumes as to how considerate you are. My advice: Dump his ass and buy yourself a real nice vibrator because it sounds like you'd get a lot more out of it than what you are getting right now from your boyfriend. There are plenty of real men out there that are willing to treat you and your body the way it deserves to be treated. Never settle for anything less.
It's a shame that he won't go down on you, but there are other alternatives. Using his hands is one, but I would suggest getting a toy he can use on you. Speaking from experience, the toy gets you there a little faster and never gets tired.
As for morning blowjobs - never met a guy who said no ...
Well first off, your predicament is quite normal. Many men have trouble going down on a women for numerous reasons, mostly because we're taught when we're younger that it's disgusting and nasty and something a man should never do. And that teaching just seemed to stick even though I don't find it at all like that, I actually enjoy doing it. For the actual question you can try numerous things, check the internet for foreplay positions and try them. Find what you enjoy and stick to it. And for a woman to give a man a morning bj, is seen like a goddess to the man. He will be eternally grateful that you've done it for him. But again that's no reason to do it. Only do it if you want to, but the answer is yes, he will certainly be grateful and will truly enjoy himself.
Only other thing is fingering or sex. Even if he hates it he should be able to put up with it once in a while.
And if not, I will take you off of his hands. Any girl that offers to give a blowjob to wake me up is definitely a keeper.
I am jealous of your boyfriend and also feel bad that he doesn't want to try harder for you.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Sounds like a pretty selfish boyfriend. Anyhow, no, most guys would not complain about a morning blowjob. Or being woke up to one.
If it's the only way you can orgasm, get rid of him and move in with me.
Vaginal maintenance is important. Stay trimmed. Don't tell us about your random infections and girly problems either or your vagina will be about as appealing as gas station sushi.
Maybe try fingering yourself when you are having sex & see if you can get an orgasm that way.
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