Sending nude pics a mistake??

[Anonymous]

I am so freaking out right now. I have had a online friend for a few months and we have passed lots and lots of photos which have went from sweet to mild to very risque, got to the point of him asking for a picture of a specific body part (very specific woman's part) and after being nervous I sent it...got back a great response, same type of communication continued for few more weeks now and to show more of my interest and to prove I am serious I am really ready to meet him and I guess prove what I have been saying I decided to send a picture of that same specific body part to him without him having to ask...it has been HOURS and I have heard nothing back...so I feel extremely embarrassed and stupid. he knew before hand I was sending him a pic so I don't think its possible he didn't get it or he would have said he never got what I was sending. I am not sure why after months of us going back and forth he would just not respond like that! Was it too forward of me to send that type of pic without him asking for it? maybe it sends the wrong message about the type of girl I am and fyi...i have never took or sent that type of pic to any other guy. I am 6 months out of a relationship I was in for 12 years so its taken me months to get to this point with someone and to know he is someone I want to meet. we have talked about a lot of stuff so this isn't something that is soo outta the way. I am not real big on online anything but have communicated with maybe 3-4 other guys in recent years but never met anyone in person or communicated on the level I have with this guy. it was just something I felt comfortable with him and the time we have warmed up to each other. Need an opinion on if this is a very outlandish thing and that only easy women send those type of pics. Do you think I have messed up everything by being so forward? what do I do now? should I ask him what's wrong all of a sudden or wait to hear from him?

[RudeAwakening]

Hi,

I don't know if you've heard from him by now, but if you haven't you should go ahead and ask if he's received your last pic that you sent. There could be so many reasons why he never responded. Maybe he went out, or he stepped away, or he lost internet connection. Basically the list goes on and on.

But I don't think you've ruined anything by sending him a private pic...honestly us guys love private pics like that. And as long as he knows where its coming from why would he get bent about that.

Go ahead, send him another message.

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[Anonymous]

Here's the deal about sending pics in todays age. Make sure if you do, your face isn't in it. If you spend a pic of a body part, who cares what they do with it, no one can prove it's you. But if your face or a specific tattoo or what not is in it, then you're asking for trouble.

[newprecedent]

there was a girl in my school who sent an explicit video to her boyfriend. He was grossed out and thought it was 'funny' so he sent the vid to all his friends then dumped her. And basically everyone in the school now has that vid. Sending online pics is a BAD IDEA

[jakdenife]

If you're going to send any nude pics to someone (for whatever reason), make sure they don't have a picture of your face (or any other specific details about you, like your real name)! I don't think you changed the relationship that much by sending him nude pics, since it seems as though he was more interested in sex from the start.