GUYS, why do you like your penis touched? Is it better if you LIKE the 'toucher'?

[Anonymous]

Give at least 5 reasons , why you like your Penis to be touched.. Not necessarily for a HJ, or BJ. & Is it very frustrating if you do not get a HJ, or BJ, when your penis is touched by someone you like?

[cfrd17]

well my ex did not ever touch me she had sex with me with out touching she never gave me a HJ or BJ so but my girlfriend now she has rub it as I was kissing her but I mean yea it is better why you ask

1.if it feels good I mean it dose feel good unless she is hurting you then yea lol

2.if you love them it is like nothing you have ever felt

3.if they are in love with you it will mean more to both of you

4.i can just come up with 3 but it is a lot better when you love them and you have worket to it in the relashinship

[Asker]

That is REALLY cool.. Thanks for not giving me any hassle for ASKING lol.. I ask, because I am not a guy , but it seems like a really intense experience, & I was wondering what it felt like, & how it makes you feel about the person you are with... I was with a friend of mine who I am and love with, but he does not know that, & he likes me - I think a lot, but I do not know how much, and e wee kissing & he sort of wanted me to do SOMETHING tho I did not know what, cause he said nothing, I could-

[Asker]

Just TELL, & I did not know what to do.. If he jut wanted ANYONE to do tat, it would have made me feel cheep, but if he wanted ME to do that, it would have been a bit weird cause I have never done that before, but I would have done something just cause it was nice being there.. I would not have done a a BJ tho . :-) I though maybe he needed to relax, which is why he forgot that we were ot supposed to go that far...I did not FEEL like he was using me, but I was worried he might not understand-

[Asker]

That I do not just go arond kissing boys & touching them lol We used to go oyt but I was withut ANY experience, so he went REAL slow.. Then I left, & now I am back & e stil like each other butit has been too complicated to bBE toether, sooo we just stayedfriends , bu we do not hang out with anyone else. & I just kissed him & he thought I wanted to,he offered to make love, & then said we should n't so I was ging to leave bu then we kise & then the thig withhis penis that I did not do.. THAT

[Asker]

Is how I became curious enough to ASK.. Tho I was curious a to guys feel about it before THAT... He as def. getting more relaxed & I felt kind of bad about just leaving & I would not have minded doing a little bit, but I thought maybe he did not MEAN to do anything, cause he SAID it was a bad idea.. If I thought he just was t thinking about it, & would not think about it if I did anything, or thought BADLY about it, then I my have done something... So, I was wondering.. lol

[woodsman]

Don't need to give 5 reasons why I love to have my penis touched. I love to have it touched because it feels wonderful. My girlfriend loves to tease me and keep me hard all the time because she knows that when we get home I am going to be worked up and ready for sex.

she loves to have her clitoris licked to orgasm but I have to need to ask her why, I know why, because it feels wonderful.

[Asker]

NO you do not HAVE to ask that- lol.. But I was the one asking.. I do not know any of that, & it seems like such a powerful thing, I was wondering what it was like for guys, how it makes them feel about the person with them.. Thank You. :-)

[tfan1]

1. It shows that she likes or loves you

2. She’s curious especially if it’s the first real one she’s touched or seen

3. She likes the reaction as she touches the penis which puts a smile on my face

4. Her soft hands feels better than mine

5. Stimulation - a woman’s hands always feels better 😉👍

and to answer your last question - Yes it is frustrating - because if she just teases and won’t continue - well then I have to masturbate myself or possibly mutually masturbate together

by the way. Switch it around - if a guy did that to your clitoris and teased you and did full stop - I’m sure you would find it frustrating and would need to masturbate as well 😉

[Desires]

1. Feels good.

2. Arousing.

3. Feels good.

4. Arousing.

5. Feels good.

"Is it very frustrating if you do not get a HJ, or BJ, when your penis is touched by someone you like?"

No.

[Asker]

So you do not mind it just being caressed, you do not HAVE to have an orgasm,you would not stop all activity, if it did not turn into something more? Do yo prefer to be hard or gentle?

[Desires]

1. Correct 2. Gentle

[Asker]

Why do You think many guys, say they like it rough.. Especially magazines. Like they want you to turn it to hamburger, & I do not instinctively feel like DOING it that way... Of course it matters what the guy wants cause it is HIS penis lol, but I feel like it should be more sensual & connected, then just throwing it around.. Obviously everyone is different, but I hope I am with a guy that likes it gentle, cause I do not think I could do it hard, I feel like I am being a jerk or something lol

[Asker]

Btw, thanks :-)