Why is is that guys always want to be left alone after sex?

[raabzbaby89]

In the FWB case, even if they are two GOOD friends, the guy never wants to let the girl sleep over or hang out or talk after they're done banging! That's two FWBs now who have done this to me numerous times. I asked 2 guy friends of one of my girl friends if all guys just want the girl gone after sex, even if they are DATING her. They said yes, guys just want to be left alone after sex. FWB, girlfriend, whatever. They just don't want to see the girl after the deed is done! I don't believe that any guy will ever understand how sh*tty this makes girls feel. So guys, my question is ...why? I know you have a "down time" in between sessions and whatnot, but if you just had amazing sex, why do you want the girl that did it with you to just GO away and come back next weekend?

[KoalaDefeachie]

umm.. to be completely honest.. idk.. I'm a guy, and this applies to me entirely.. after I am finished, I just get really anti social, and I get irritated if I can't just lay down and relax, I like to put my fan on full speed, and just cool off. but when I have a girlfriend, I force myself to stay and cuddle a little bit... although I don't want to do that.. the truth is, even if I'm watching p*rn or something, haha, when I am finished, I turn it off and ask myself why the f*** I am watching that. its like a switch just turns on, must be in the genetic makeup of guys or something.. and yes I do care about girls feelings too

[setcheck67]

Those guys don't want to develop an emotional attachment and believe it or not RIGHT after sex is when we get "emotional". Some guys turn into cuddly bears and others just retract themselves, because they were raised their whole lives to never show emotion.

[raabzbaby89]

Insightful...i like it

[versusxiii]

I understand it with a FWB, because you're not his girlfriend so you're really just kinda being used for sex. As far as two dating, if a girl has a problem, she needs to confront him about it. I think our problem is we never like to say what is bothering us when sometimes we should.

[Rose-Red-Sunsets]

The guy has always made it quite clear he didn't want me to leave. Maybe the guy would want you to leave if your sex was just a fling. If he really respected and enjoyed your company he would want you to stay.

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend never does that, after sex he's goes quiet but only for a few minutes. He talks, hugs me, tickles, play fights etc just like what we did before sex.

[Anonymous]

IDK exactly why I do it but I do. I just get tired and want to sleep without having to deal with anything. I like to sleep alone and if a girl stays over it makes me uncomfortable. I like my space so after sex its always best if the girl leaves.