I'm a Muslim Girl but Very Horny... What to do?

Question

Hi everyone. I am muslim I hv 23 years old I live with my family and I love life qi hv friends but never had a boyfriend since it's prohibited in Islam. The problem is that I am very horny girl, I have the desires for sex all the time it's very frustrating i can't help it when the night comes I imagine myself having hot sex with some man and I start masturbating even if it is a sin but I can't find a better solution. I am so tired I don't know what to do anymore

knotuptoit · Accepted Answer

If your religion can control your sexual desires it will control all other aspects of your life. That is the most important part of the control system of religion. Control the bed = control the gold. First let me say I fervently believe there is a God. The universe is too complex for everything to just be random accident. The problem comes when MEN factioned the religions. Within all Judaeo'/Christian and Muslim paths sex... your sex….. belongs to your religion just as your thoughts and desires belong to your religion not to yourself. This is the reason that some sects of the Muslim faith require that little girls have their clits cut out (not off... out) and the inside of their vaginas burned to permanently insure they will never experience orgasm. That gives MEN total control over a woman's sexuality. FGM is a serious issue. Pray that you are not found out. The whole virginity/ masturbation/ premarital sex/ orgasm/ etc issues within the context of religious structure boils down to misconceptions about procreation thousands of years ago and the fact that a woman was, and in some cultures is still, the property of a man. Her father’s chattel until marriage and her husband’s until death. As soon as women around the world figure out that they belong to themselves not the men in their lives the sooner they will begin to live and not just exist. The big thing the world needs to do is stop believing in religion and return to believing in God and kick religion out of your bed forever.

cth96190 · Accepted Answer

You have a serious problem.
If to have sex outside of marriage, Sharia demands that you be stoned to death.
If you leave Islam, Sharia demands that you be murdered by your father and/or other male relatives.
So much for the religion of peace.

Sangita93 · Accepted Answer

All these religious beliefs were formed in 15th and 16th century. At that time there was no solution for avoiding undesired pregnancy. Society were ruled by old beliefs and standards. Sex is a natural force and it has no religion. If you are hungry and food is available - you should take it. If you need to walk an extra mile for that - you should, because it is better to satisfy hunger by doing something than dying of hunger. Do not feel ill for masturbation, and if possible enjoy pleasure of life by some arrangement. You may find out some lesbo friend as an alternate. Enjoy the life with due precaution for health and hygiene.

Thisisme01 · Accepted Answer

Lol up to you... I'm Muslim I gave my virginity to my fiancé... So yeah had sex outside of marriage. It's totally up to you what you do or don't do... I waited to have sex with someone special not for marriage... if you're not willing to have sex masturbate rub your clit... Ik its against the religion but needs must lmao

Inkwolf · Accepted Answer

Ever had a dildo?
Maybe it's not allowed where you are, but they're pretty useful for people in your situation. But if you can't get your hands on a dildo, you could always find other alternatives. Masturbating in different ways works too.

sangini93 · Answer

Feelings of sex has nothing to do with religion or cast. In sexual acts there is only male and female - manage the way you can.

Wanderingheartbeat · Answer

Get yourself involved with other things.. be super busy so you don't got time for sex. Then masturbate and hump your bed.

prettylittlemynx · Answer

If the dark side tastes good, you should savor it

rsstanford · Answer

Get a vibrator for clitorial stimulation, it's not for inserting so you will still be pure.

Curmudgeon · Answer

Join us infidels in the West.

SüßeJäger · Answer

God made you that way for a reason. You think he's going to deal you cards out of a stacked deck then punish you cuz you're not winning? That's evil. God is good and he loves you. Sex is supposed to be enjoyed (yes inside marriage) but he's not going to punish you for having normal thoughts. I hope you have the opportunity to be a happy person and that's not going to happen under the yolk of Islam.

AndyOh · Answer

I suipose buying a dildoe is out of the question.

chintita · Answer

if you are horny enough and clearly not that religious, just get a boyfriend. a lot of people date even in morocco i bet. just don't let your family know, or if you are religious then just get married.

Mesonfielde · Answer

Personally I vote for not being Muslim, but that's difficult in an Islamic family.

abundantlyrich · Answer

Your hairbrush could come in handy

StarlightSwift · Answer

Do what makes you happy. Allah will love you regardless. He wants you to be you.

thatboye · Answer

Very normal. I am constantly horny also, but don't like to talk about it in public. Masterbation is definitely normal, and you shouldn't have to suffer your urges, just because of religion.

LookatDuhDonkay · Answer

It's natural. Nothing to be ashamed of. I'm not a theist, but I would assume that masturbation isn't the highest sin when God /Allah is reviewing your judgement sheet.

ravenwolf · Answer

it is not a sin... run away from your family and be your own person.. do not allow vintage ideas from biblical tyranny to mold you as a person... it is 100% natural to have sexual desires.. it's biology

brain5000 · Answer

You don't want to marry an asshole just because you need a good fuck. Women tend to be attracted to total assholes, so marriage is no solution. Some asshole is going to treat you like his property, fuck that. You deserve respect. Just go and fuck some hot guy. Take control of your life. Religion, family values, they make things complicated. Religion is a tool the powerful use to control the frightened and ignorant. Find a man with a penis. Ask him to wear a rubber. He'll do it. Men need to fuck also. Everybody does.