Why do men like to see two women have sex?

[Merry-Heart]

I just wanted to ask a quick question because I'm curious of why guys like to see two (or more) women having sex. It doesn't do anything for me personally, so I was curious as to what it is about it that turns guys on? (Anyone can answer.)

[jbone79]

hmmm. tough question. the various sexual fetishes in society are very perplexing. I personally don't find anything arousing about lesbian sexual acts, but that's just me. I can say that from having sat through multiple conversations, I find that the whole "2 chicks" fantasy is usually spoken from the lips of people I consider.unimaginative, vague, and sadly unorigional in ideas and thought. A persons sexuality is their business and right by all means, but really it's usually the uber macho alpha male type retards are the ones that blabber about it at the bowling alley after they reach 1 bud light past legal driving blood alcohol level. Try this, next time a man suggests this, ask them if they have the same feelings about two men engaged in a homosexual act. I think you will get your answer, and see them for who they really are. good luck- make good choices- j

[Merry-Heart]

That was funny! lol

[dakadan]

I like to see multiple people having sex. I think most men are homophobic whether they know it or not, so seeing two women and being able to imagine that we are in the midst of those women is a tremendous turn on. I think most men assume that as part of the fantasy these women will give them most of the attention.

[Merry-Heart]

That's an interesting thought that you brought up - that women would give them attention. Thanks for your input!

[dakadan]

Well, like I said it is a male fantasy. Not necessarily reality. LOL

[jbone79]

I really can't stand the word homophobic is misrepresented in american speaking. People need to realize, that just because you don't like or agree with something, it does not mean you have a fear of it. I hate ketchup on french fries...do I have tomatophobia?....no. marinara sauce rocks. mob mentality with cliche phrases is sooooo irritating, link

[dakadan]

In this case I don't think homophobic is a misrepresentation. I phobia means to have an irrational fear of something. I think most American males do have an irrational fear about gay men.

[Merry-Heart]

You guys are my two favorite guys on here so far - besides Delta Boy - He's very interesting too!

[dakadan]

Awe. Thank you.

[jbone79]

Lol, you just said the same thing twice. you can't generalize most american men as anything. to dislike something that other people do, does NOT mean you are afraid of them. I don't like Osama bin Laden. It does not mean I have arab-phobia. I don't have an irrational fear of him either because he's a crazy jihad happy prick. I hope I am getting my point across. the phrase "homophobic" is a word incorrectly used in the wrong context by uneducated americans with a mob mentality.

[dakadan]

I guess well have to agree to disagree. I think we do have a phobia of terrorists or at least that is what our government wants us to believe. Some of the security stuff we go through at the airport is a result of this and I agree that it is mob mentality. I think a, and maybe it isn't most, but is a large percentage of American men are paranoid of being perceived as being homosexual if they, for example, hug a man or show any kind of affection. I think their fear is irrational.

[jbone79]

Paranoid of being perceived as being homosexual - that I can totally agree on with you! so we did find a happy medium...id give you a hug, but that;s not the ,,agghhemm MANLY THING TO DO! lol your a pretty cool dude man. excellent responses. - j

[dakadan]

Thanks. I'm open to different ideas and opinions. If I wanted everyone to do exactly as I did then we would be in the Middle East.

[vortexofdoom97]

Homophobia was actually a term coined to refer to any aversion to homosexuality. It's not even a legitimate word, as homo only means "same," so arguing over the Greek root of an invented word is pretty ridiculous.

[Shyyz]

If I had to guess, guys see women as very sexy beings and having 2 of them in sexual activity is like double the fun for some. Some guys like lesbian sex while others prefer traditional male-female sex. Everybody has their own fetishes when it comes to sex. But to some guys lesbian sex, rids the scene of ugly, pigish, males who are just having sex cause they can, when they know the women are really into it mentally.

[Jessica32]

Because it's hot

[WayTooPopular]

I hate to answer by saying this, but I have not a damn clue. I've been wondering this most of my life, it makes no sense whatsoever, but it's awesome. It just does the trick, I don't know what it is.

My only possible idea so far is since guys love a girl they can relate to (like football, beer, whatever we like to do) we also like a girl who can understand our love for girls? That'd be some deep subliminal sh*t tho compared to most of our reason for enjoying porn (which is "if we were that guy it would feel awesome").

I love how this is getting more accepted though, women are making out when they get drunk at parties now. Viva la revolucion my lesbian amigas.

[SimplyAGuy]

I think its because a guy may not be comfortable with seeing another man with a woman. Two women having sex is less threatening. Nothing to compete with, maybe or, homophobic possibly. In my opinion its just a fantasy that makes a male feel more macho. If it turns him on and you will reap the benefits I say if you can deal let him dream. jeff

[ThunderGod]

I'm not into that. I like role playing fantasies in my head and there's no room in between them for me! I like girls who like guys.

[Jarett]

Let me put it in the best and easiest way I can. It's like chocolate. Having one candy bar is pretty awesome. But having 2 candy bars is even more amazing.

[justthefriend]

a friend once told me its 2 sets of boobs and to sets of p***ys, and 2 asses, so they like it because its double of their favorite things