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How to reach my A-Spot?

Just in case some of you don't know what that is. The A Spot is also called the deep spot, AFE zone or even the ‘epicenter’.
How to reach my A-Spot?
I'm in a LDR so the only way I can have any kind of sex with my boyfriend, is by using Skype. Lately he's turning me on A LOT more and the best orgasms I have are by the A-spot. Which sadly I'm having issues reaching that spot good enough and become really tired physically. So that makes it extremely hard for me to feel 100% satisfied which makes me feel bad. I don't want my boyfriend to think it's because he doesn't turn me on enough, that's not the case at all. My fingers are just to short and I don't have the physical strength. I don't want to get a dildo which the reason for that is personal. So what are easier ways to reach that spot?

I honestly want to ask this anonymously but I feel like nobody will give me an answer if I do.
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Just in case some of you don't know what LDR means, it's, "Long Distance Relationship." So I have a boyfriend, he's just not here physically to take care of things.
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I need more women to give their input please.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If you do not wish to use a diode or anything penertrative then you've got to bring the A spot and cervix closer to the vaginal open. Squatting in the peeing position and bearing down. Doing your kegels exercises to enable you push the cervix down. If it's because your boyfriend likes to watch then draw your knees up into your chest this can be maintained by having some ties , belts or robe belts tied together. And loop each end then put your feet in each loop then get the length right and but the adjoining length round your shoulders and neck. So it's like stirrups. Then you can lie on your back propped up on pillows. Facing the camera.
    Next I about recommend a vaginal spreader not a speculum but one of these.

  • The only way I can imagine without using an outside object is to lube up your hand and slide it in deeper.

    • I didn't expect MHO for this lol, thank you 😊.

Most Helpful Girls

  • well if you don't want to use toys, try different positions. if that doesn't work then you're probably out of luck until you can find a partner who can finger you well.

  • how about a tiny vibrator finger extention?
    i just imagined it. maybe i should try to get a patent.

    • thank you i'jl try to put it on the market asap

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  • Obviously a long object.

  • You'd have to get something longer to reach it. I don't think there's really any way to reach it constantly with fingers. It does produce amazing orgasms if you know how to stimulate it.

  • You need a guy with good knowledge of sexual anatomy. I have quite long fingers, often called "magic fingers" by many of my lady friends and I can hit it every time. Just pick your man carefully and you will be OK.

  • have you tried using a toy to have an easier time reaching it?

    • I haven't but I don't want to use a toy. I don't know how to explain my reasons behind that.

    • no its all good. well all I could possibly think of is experimenting with different angles and positions, you may find just the right angle that reaches your A-spot with ease with your fingers only that doesn't tire you out too quickly because said angle/position won't be difficult to maintain.

    • Sounds like SOL.

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  • Try different positions

  • I'm not sure if it exist or not, but do get deep into girls because of my size and they seem to like it.

  • Well, you've eliminated the one thing that would let you reach it if your fingers are too short (a dildo) so *shrugs*

  • Have you tried different positions?

    • I try to sit straight up since that helps but having issues finding things to have my back against.

    • What about if you sit on your heels?

    • What do you mean by that?

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  • buy a cucumber.

    • hell no! I rather eat them.

    • Then buy some Bananas. You don't have to eat the peels.

    • Nope I like bananas too and that would be painful as hell.

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  • s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/.../...a0cb77372f.jpg
    This one WOMAN!

  • Do you prefer to stimulate the G or the A spot? Even being more difficult...
    This question is also for all the girls here.

    • The A-spot feels better and I know! I'm really sad how there aren't any chicks commenting at all. :(

    • Yeah, shame, people just talk about G G G, and there are more interesting things to know about it. We need to get more asks and myTakes about this, so girls start to open more. keep talking about it, and thanks for the info.

    • Its unusualy to enjoy that stimulated more then G. there are FAR FAR FAR less pleasure nerves around the A. The reason it isn't talked about is that it isn't all hat pleasurable for most women.

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  • Perhaps spreading legs farther apart? 🤔
    Very informative pic, by the way. I saved it to my phone's album. (feels dumb and weird for doing so) 😆

    • Nothing wrong with that since it's good to learn about how to do it right.

    • Thanks. Have you tried my suggestion before?

    • I can't make my legs to wide other wise I risk pulling the muscle around my hip. I need to work on fixing that. :(

  • One thing I've noticed is whatever the semisolid structure is deep in the vagina which many women like to have tickled or flicked, it isn't always there. If you are not already excited it doesn't make itself apparent. So if you want to stimulate it I'd say you have to get yourself worked up before you go looking for it.

    • The issue is getting it to stop feeling so overly excited.

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