Guys, do you like when a girl touches your balls? (during oral or handjob)

Lol maybe a dumb question, but I heard some guys don't like it. I've actually never tried to touch my bf's balls / perineum (the sensitive patch of skin between the balls and anus), even though we've been together awhile and I've given him many blowjobs and handjobs. Also, IF you like it, how do you like your 'boys' to be touched? And should I do anything to my guy's perineum? I wouldn't want him to freak out or be like 'uhh what are you doing'. In cosmo it said to suck on the skin there, but I don't know if that would weird a guy out since its pretty close to his anus. Idk, tell me what you think! Help please =)
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  • Great questions, and very detailed so it makes it easier to answer (sort of). Let me give it a shot: (so to speak).

    First off, you covered a lot of male anatomy - all located within three inches (or so).

    Let's break it down...

    In re: "the boys" ... When he is turned on, "the boys" are pulled up tight... along with... well YOU KNOW! At this point, when your boyfriend is erect, the boys are like your ovaries. Ready to do their job, but not much pleasure there. Important safety note: if you squeeze them, they can really hurt.

    Moving South along his anatomy... As you pointed out you will find his perineum which is just like yours. (Except that it is HIS, not YOURS... but you get the idea.) This is a sensitive area, and like you said it depends on how long you have been together. Soo... if you find your mouth and tongue there, and you happen to (you know) and he isn't surprised - THIS IS A VERY GOOD THING. On the other hand, if you haven't been together much, it can be a big surprise.

    Again, moving further South (down) you will find his anus. Let's stop here and summarize at this point.

    If all goes well north of the border: (wee - wee, "the boys," perineum); then you can go South. However, just like you would want a boy to take his time; you shoud too.

    You said this may be a dumb question, but actually it rocks. You seem like a sensitive and thoughtful girl.

    D.

    • Thankyou, this was a great answer, and haha yeah I actually am pretty sensitive and thoughtful =)

    • Yes, luv... I can tell. Girls like you are the best! D.

  • Depends on the guy and what he likes, its like a guy giving you oral, the sensitve part get the attention anywhere else doenst work does it.

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  • I have not run into any guy yet who did not love having his balls and sac fondled. Some guys will come very quickly from the stimulation of the sac.

    • Speaking for all males... your 100% correct, we all love our balls played with

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  • as so many have said here... everyone is different. so either just ask and/or try those things... and see how he reacts. *I* happen to love gentle massaging as well as licking of my balls... especially the underside of them. massaging and/or licking my perineum ALSO feels amazing to me... but again, not for everyone. oh, and in ANY case, I DO like it most JUST after I have showered ;)

    i will also add that, for some reason, it took me a while to enjoy this... from about 17-21 I didn't like them touched at all... so, it maybe even change over time. he might not like it now... but might in the future!

  • It feels relaxing for the most part, but any slight bit of pressure will give us a constant pain in the crotch for hours... A sort of punch to the gut pain too... I've never actually cumed from having my balls fondled though... I can't understand how a guy can come to that lol. It sorts of a non-erogenous zone really. It feels nice, but doesn't really give a guy sexual pleasure.

  • I like it! I'd say just give it a try . . . just be gentle. kind of cup them lightly or kiss or lick. you'll be able to tell pretty quickly what he likes and what he doesn't . . . just explore and follow the cues of his breathing and how his body involuntarily moves.

  • I can't speak for every guy, because every guy is different..

    But yes, it's a huge turn on for me if she does touch them.

  • The best is when a girl plays with them, but just using her nails. Not hard or anything, but just enough so it scratches a little.

  • teabag the man

  • Touch my balls, perineum, ass, anus, just do what you like. Light touch on the balls please.

  • Well it depends if your boyfriend is open. Me honestly don't like girls going near their or anyting, or touching my balls. JUst work on licking the nob. Small percentage of guys like the anal stuff

  • I love it. Only light touching, though, because they are very sensitive.

  • of course we like it.i like it.many times at morning my girlfriend when she wakes up ,is playing with my balls. but you have to be careful because a wrong movement will make us lose our breath...:)

  • perineum=no feeling.. for me at least.. and its a bit wierd.. my nutts beingg rubbed whilee fcknn is justt an overall great feeling.. go for it..