GUYS do YOU moan?

[Anonymous]

OK. I think we have seen enough reports on woman who moan, woman who won't woman who don't , woman who can't., woman who don't moan enough, & woman who moan too much... GUYS do you moan, do you make sure to vocally rate on a scale of 1 - 10 , exactly ow fantastically phenomenal your partners performance is? Letting her know with each gasp of breath & shrill of delight that she totally rocks your world & if she was not there with you inside her, your world just could not be as it should? GUYS, do YOU moan? ^^

[Johner]

Ok, I'm going to put it out there for you. It is not fair. But on average no, guys do not moan. You are 100% right about men wanting girls to moan becuase it really turns us on. Knowing we're doing something that making you lose control of your normal vocal outlet. That we're making you feel so good makes us feel good. better to give then recieve as it were.

The reason we don't make a peep is not because we're mean. We are just like that. It's a bullsh*t answer but its the truth lol It is outside our comfort zone. Moaning like that can come completely nature but we sqwelch it because it sounds wrong to us. If it bugs you just let your man know that you really want to hear him moan and not to cover it up. He may be more inclinded to let his outbursts actually outburst :D

[Asker]

" .It is outside our comfort zone. " (THAT is how I FEEL :-) ( btw have yet to moan, I just realized the other day, in the midst of reflecting on that very fact, that I do not recall guys moaning - except about their girlfriends not moaning, or not enough lol) Anyways um, I understand your comfort thing... I personally do not like to make noise when I am lost in wonderfulness.. t is more intense & meaningful & exciting to me if I do not have to worry about preforming at all- actually^^

[Asker]

BTW, thank you for the elaborate explanation... I was thinking NO guy was going t answer this... I think I'll call it ' moanspectation' & I think that guys moanspectations of their gf, are a bit excessive :-) ;-)

[Curiouschicagoguy28]

I never moan basically because early on (in high school) you always had to keep it down to prevent parents from hearing and the girls I dated didn't get turned on by doing it. As a result I learned to keep myself very quiet. Since then, no girls have wanted me to moan so I haven't changed. I probably would if it turned on my gf. BTW, if you have ever wondered why a guy is the way he is sexually, ask him about his first few girlfriends.

[Asker]

Lol I am not complaining that guys do not moan - to each his own.. Actually I would have to adjust to the moaning but I will live . I am bothered by all the posts about woman not moaning loud enough, genuinely enough, too much , too sporadically. I have no problem with it personally, if my boyfriend wants to, but I do not want to feel put I the soot. I like to thoroughly get into whatever I do, & I do not want to feel like I am performing. btw, how do yu now it bothered the gf's you think it did?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend moans and talks dirty to me, but I had to get him to do that - for a while he just kind of grunted at the end and I wondered if he enjoyed himself. I inquired a bit, making it known to him that it turns me on to hear him enjoy himself.

Sometimes it seems like guys forget that women aren't the only objects of sexual desire - they are too and women are visual, sexually responsive creatures too! So, they could remember to put some effort into turning us on, showing they enjoy themselves, and hell, even wearing a nicer pair of boxers, boxer briefs, etc. now and then.

[Asker]

Women are visual, sexually responsive creatures.. " YOU know it is ironic that fir the REST of life, woman are emotional & feeling blah bla blah, & it just so happens that with sex, we are completely cerebral lol My boyfriend has beautiful skin. First time he kissed me it was raining & I remember thinking, why does he have to be wearingTHAT shirt, he looks soooo hot in white & it would make this so much more enjoyable - Which made ME feel shallow- a guy it is exceptable, cause they are like that^^

[Anonymous]

I'm going to answer this even though I believe it's directed towards men. I have slept with quite a few guys and as far as I can remember NONE of them moaned. If they did it wasn't much. It seems kind of hypocritical to me lol because guys seem to want the girl to moan but they don't do it themselves.

[Asker]

THANK YOU. I do not know when it just popped into my head.. lol I have been thinking about how I just do not like to make noise, it is more intense for me to just sunk into what is going o & embrace it & I like to have some composure too, lol & I just though wtf, guys are so picky about woman proving the whole fantasmic escapade that is their d***, by moaning & carrying on, & then the whole faking orgasm- I bet that is what started it, lol So why don't guys do it if woman are EXPECTD to...

[Asker]

I am SO glad I noticed his.. ws almost feeling guilty or like I shoud make some noise so he wold be more comfortable, but I do not WANT to lol, & they really do not do it all that much.. Even if they call out stuff, that is not basically getting opera like in bed - like with porn, the woman are SO ANNOYIG I want to slap them -except I don't of course- it is like a dying cat with a valley girl twang. Anyways, I am not going t worry about moaning lol. Wonder if any guys are gonna answer this^^

[cad012shsu]

My boyfriend moans a lot. Not really during sex, or that I know of because I am pretty loud myself. But when it comes to kissing or oral, he is very vocal.

[Marrajoong]

He is such a rare item. Jealous you!

[setcheck67]

I don't really moan, but if she is really working me to a point where I'm having it difficult to hold it back I'll breathe in and out very loudly to keep myself from popping. Occasionally if she REALLY is making me feel good I'll actually make moaning sounds, but those are rare because almost all those times I was already feeling pretty horny and sensitive before hand.

[Billlewis]

I think it's rarer for guys to moan much during sex because we masturbate so much more than women do. Therefore, if your boyfriend is loud and vocal during your lovemaking sessions, he's probably a real stud who does a lot more fucking than playing with himself.

[asdfdude]

I'm normally pretty quiet, but I moan like crazy when my prostate is stimulated.

[Anonymous]

I hope they oof

[Anonymous]

The guy on with now, we don't have sex but I get him other ways moans. Not extremely loud but I can definitely tell when he likes something. I think it depends on the guy. Some are very vocal others are silent and some in between. Its not like when a girl moans, its more of a grunt/deep breath kind of thing.

[Asker]

Yeah, haha, I think the moan expectation 'moanspectation' ^^ of woman, is just a bit excessive... Glad have something worked out tho.. It just goes beyond my' comfort level 'as some guy up top put it. :-)