Guys: do you like "face sitting"? and also...

what is it exactly? I've heard a bit about it here and there. so is it literally where the girl sits on your face and you give her oral? please explain if I got it wrong.

and if that's what it is, then what are you guys' thoughts and feelings about it? how do you get into position for it? I'd be afraid of making the guy feel like he's suffocating underneath me lol seriously.

no harsh words please, I just want to get the facts straight.


Most Helpful Guy

  • It is okay to properly sit on a guy's face. Really. It is the most enjoyable thing a guy can experience. It is just a question of whether you feel comfortable about it. I mean, can you open up your ass cheeks and feel his face sink into you? Worried he might suffocate? Make sure he is prepared (usually by taking a deep breath). When he runs out of air, he will let you know and you just lift yourself up (perhaps you and your guy can decide on a method of letting you know when to let him breathe such as a tap on your ass by the guy). The other option is to bob up and down on him or move your hips back and forth across his face. This gives the guy lots of opportunities to breath. Of course, the only risk in doing so is that the movement may cause some stimulation of your clitoris, but it depends on what you want to get out of it.

    Facesitting by women is an acquired taste so to speak (more so for the man). Some women find no difficulties progressing from a simple hump of a pillow to discovering the extra pleasures of a tongue and nose of a guy to stimulate the clitoris and provide a little teasing of her lower lips. For other women, it may require to be taken in simple stages. For example, try out jeans facesitting. Then when things feel right, progress to the panties facesitting stage. If that feels okay, try pulling your underwear to one side temporarily for a quick dip on the face and lift up to prevent stimulation of the clitoris. Perhaps at this moment it is good for the guy to reassure girl that it is okay and he enjoys it to give her more confidence. Also he should do the right thing by keeping his tongue to himself until she is fully adjusted to the experience. Only after regular close contact of the clitoris and vagina to the man's face and gaining sufficient confidence will she dare to push the boundaries and ask the man to use his tongue. Eventually the final stage is for her to feel comfortable about cumming and squirting on the guy's face. Then she will become a fully-fledged professional of this sex fetish with the options of which end she prefers to enjoy her sex. She may even explore the idea of using a strap-on dildo on the guy's face to try to get the best of both worlds (i.e. a tongue on the clitoris and something firm and hard going into her vagina for a long and satisfying climax.

    However, there will be a few women who will always feel too embarrassed to get this personal with a guy (perhaps opting for breast smothering if it pleases him). But if a guy can find a woman who really loves facesitting, she is very special and worth cherishing and doing everything to please her with that special dessert of a good face rammed up her ass and p****.

    I hope that answers your question!


What Guys Said 14

  • Yeah it's enjoyable, I like it. No problems with breathing at least not so far anyway

  • Face sitting mean sitting on a guy face. This is a very good feeling. I mean you not just sitting on his face and enjoying lol. Then yes he will sufficate under all your wight on his nose and mouth lol. You have to keep a balance so he can breath and eat you at the same time. so his nose and mouth were basicaly in you but not so deep where you have no oxidion. It is kind of hard to explay you just have to do it and then adjust things you know. And trust me YOU WILL BE VERY HAPPY

  • I LOVE the imagination of a girl sitting on me! The problem with that is that women dont understand what makes submissive guys exited about it. We love the idea of the woman not caring at all about the man, when its for her pleasure. So if she sits fullweight on my face, that is what I expect! I dont want her to adjust the weight, this is uncomfortable for both of us, just sit! I won't die! Also she doesn't need to stand up or worry about me getting air, all you have to do is to just dont care, we ALWAYS find a way to get air somehow, and only if the Girl fights against it, it gets exiting. Because there can't be a more turn off for me and a lot of other men, if the women lets us breath even tho we still could have hold it for 30 more seconds. Me for example: I can hold it for around 1 min. and 30 sec. but if the woman stands up already after 30 sec. there Is nothing exiting about it. I and only I know when I need air. And when she manages to still hold my air past 1:30 for 1 more minute so I get this burning feel, and my face gets all red and she just giggles, then its the right girl with the right way to do it.

  • Yes, I like it. I have never had trouble breathing when my girlfriend sits on my face.

  • To be facesitted by a girl is my most favorite fetish.
    Facesitting is also known as Queening and usually a girl sits on the partnerĀ“s face, wether a boy or a lesbian.
    A boy can worship the genitalia of the girl or she can hold his head with both hands and grind/rub her P on his face, usually nose or mouth, without having to be licked.
    Two girls did this to me, one of the girls had an orgasm on my face and i felt her contractions squeezing my nose.
    I watch a lot of videos involving Facesitting Orgasm, look for the following porn productions: MFX, NewMFX, MFVideoExtreme, Clips4Sale, SitOnHer, SubbyGirls, LesbianFacesitters, BondageOrgasms, ShesBoss;

  • The best way to get into position for it is to just straddle your guy, sitting on his chest and then slide forward and use his face for your pleasure. You can also start out in the 69 position and then just sit upright... you do need to allow him to breath every minute or so or lean back so he can breath through his mouth while trying to get you off.

    • Ok thanks!

      quick question though: how do I let him know that's what I want to do next? how would I initiate it?

    • In my last long term relationship my girlfriend got a smile on her face and just came out and asked me "Can I sit on your face?" literally.... of course I said yes. Since I had already been in several other relationships where the women knew I liked giving them oral sex so they correctly assumed I would like face sitting as well.

  • I luv it. I luv eating a girl out. I can't wait till she squirts her sweet love juice all over my face n in my mouth.

  • I'm a guy , and facesitting is the best sexual action i can ever have , but there should be some conditions for it:
    _The girl who's sitting on my face must be so neat , her a*ss should be so neat and smell good
    _should should be careful of farting , if she does it while she's sitting on my face , i won't look at her or have feelings for her any more
    _she should be classy and stylish , in order to seduce to this kind of sexual action...
    If one of these conditions doesn't exist , it will be so disgusting and unenjoyable , no way i would do it!

  • to give a man a really good time

  • The face is an amazing sensitivity to touch. If you love women, face-sitting becomes almost an act of worship.

    As you lower your pussyass on my oiled face, it grazes across my forehead and then very slowly moves across my facial terrain: my eyes, my nose and my mouth and tongue; it accelerates my excitement, my passion. As first your delicious clit and then your radiant bootee-hole pass over my lips on their journey, I smell and taste your sex. What bliss!

    Far from being a "verboten" act the slow and languorous slide/walk of your pussyass (or the movement of my penisass across your lovely face) is deeply intimate. It belongs to us alone, at least for the time that we are together. Paradise!

  • Okay so, perosnally I like it when a girl is bigger then me and doesn't let me breath. And sticks my nose up her hole and farts forcing me to smell. One I had 4 girls on me, 2 sitting on my chest one stuck my nose in her Ass and farts and the others sat on her lap so I couldn't move out. And for me I like it when girls dominate and get a bit funky. Like farting on me and those 4 girls were quite big. I love big fan girls to smother me

  • I personally find in a great turn on when she's on top and allowing herself to cover my face. I've found that it also allows her to move in certain motions that she gets a greater benefit from my work. She's more in control and can let herself down more for more pressure or upward to make it lighter. Also, I get to grip her hips tighter and rub her butt more...just a better position over all I think.

  • Best way is sort of the 69 position where you lie stomach on stomach with you p**** on his face, your semi-kneeling to support yourself a little so you don't suffocate him and have your forearm and elbows resting on the floor or bed. With this position, you'll get a good view too! I think it's hot and a lot of fun. I wouldn't want to have to dig through a carpet of hair to get to the twat though.

    • Thanks for the directions there! lol :)

What Girls Said 1

  • It is where a girl will squat directly down onto a guys face. Squating opens your lips and really gives the guy a great vantage point to use his lips and tongue on you Oh So Good. It's very hard on the legs though so you aren't going to be staying in that position long.