Why do guys look at my chest instead of my face when we're in a conversation?

All guys that I talk to can't look me in my eyes for more than 10 seconds. I swear. there eyes wander off until they reach my boobs and then that's what gets talked to. I have 40c cup size but I usually cover up. I have to remind guys that my face is up here lol . I just wanna know why guys do that!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You know it's a funny thing...

    In middle school I was really quiet and I would've done anything for attention. In high school I was loud but a loser and I would've done anything just to be looked up to by other people.

    Now I'm in college and I'm a DJ and do a good number of the parties around here and I've been playing music for the better part of a decade now so I know what I'm doing. When I go to parties I get hit on constantly by women and approached and befriended constantly by men because everybody wants to be a part of the "in" crowd and as the DJ, I sort of am that guy. These are the same people that don't recognize me when I'm actually sitting next to them in class. I'm slipped phone numbers all the time and hit on but when they do realize that it's me, people are sort of embarrassed and never really talk to me again.

    It's strange, I used to want attention like that but honestly it gets really old. It's so obvious to notice the change because I go from being the coolest guy in the school from one night to just some other dude people don't even always hold the door open for when Monday rolls around.

    If you didn't have amazing breasts (40C is a pretty awesome measurement), honestly, you would want them. But since you do, you see a lot of annoying things that come with them. I'm sure you've noticed by now that they're heavy.

    But this isn't some simple "grass is greener" lesson that I'm trying to teach you. Everybody just says "be happy with what you got" but there's more to it than that. What it really shows is that there's a lot of people out there who like you, but really few who can see deeper and past those surface things and really relate to you. Tons of people at my school like me, but really very few get past the fact that I play music and entertain and see me as a person who does that stuff.

    Whether you're a guy seeking girl, girl seeking guy, or any other combo you could imagine, it's really hard to find someone who sees you exactly how you want to be seen. Really I can pick from a lot of people who like me from my music, and you can probably name a lot of people who love looking at your chest, but it just shows how special it is to find the someone who sees through it all to you as a person (even if they do love your breasts lol).

    But I still gotta like who I am and you probably still like who you are. Honestly I wouldn't have it any other way.

  • Because men like breasts. And you have quite a set ^^ Not meaning to be rude or degrade you. Just commenting that you're well endowed. And men enjoy staring at a girl with a nice figure.

    It like asking why you like looking at puppies or car accidents. We are just drawn to some things.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Because that is what guys do "Look at big t*ts" Not your fault nor is there much you can do about it and I am sure very soon you will get baraged with rude and crude questions and remarks from passing guys. Take it with a grain of sand, continue to dress conservately as you do and pay no attention to it.

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  • Because those guys ar amatures. Don't feel bad. Most of them probobly don't get laid anyway. They don't know the proper way to treat a girl or get her attantion.

  • Cus they are immature. Don't worry about them.

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  • coz we are guys that's what we like and are attracted 2

  • We like boobs. We like curvy women. It's a primal urge