Is it a good thing to be 'tight'?

[Anonymous]

I was out with a guy one night and he fingered me. The next day he told me I was "tight". Is that a good or bad thing?

[DeltaBoy1983]

It is a good thing! Most guys like it tight, because it gives them (mentally) a sense that you don't sleep around a lot to have a loose area. The reality is that the amount of sex you have will not bear a great bit on your tightness. It doesn't take the body a long time to 'recover' from sex and reshape itself to its original state. So don't freak out that if you do it once, the next time he does it, that it will be different.

[dakadan]

I would say it depends. If it hurts you when you are having sex then probably not. If it feel good to you and it feels good to your partner then it is probably a good thing.

I think many people think that there is a stretch out thing and that if you have had sex too often they you won't be tight anymore. That is a myth, so don't worry about that.

[missknowitall15]

Actually its not a good thing at all and I think many people need to educate themselves... Women's vaginas are tight when the male isn't 'pleassuring' a woman enough... Its a muscle therefore it losens when its pleassured iv read the articals on the sexual health website myself... So no its not a good thing men might prefer it tight but your not doing a good job if it stays that way !!

[SweetestSinxxx]

Hell yeah its a good thing! Mine is real tight and guys really have to work their way in but once there they really love it and can never last too long :-P One guy was kinda big and it hurt him trying to get it in but then he said he never felt a p**** that good before, so yeah, being tight is definitely agood thing. Its way better than being loose and droopy or whatever!

[Belleza]

If he said it with a sincere look on his face - then he liked it! If he said it with a disgust on his face - he hated it! But most guys as I hear say being tight is a good thing!

[gahorse]

A good thing. I've never heard of a guy who prefers loose. Tight is def. good.

[Jessica32]

I love being called tight haha. It's like telling a guy he has a big dick.

[Jessica32]

Ok I swear there is somebody on here that just f***ing hates me and finds all of my answers and gives me bad ratings. UGH.

[Evilsheepempire]

It's usually a good thing.

What was the context in which he said this to you.

It can depend on if he meant that you "were tight last night" as in "You were literally a little tight down there"

Or he could have meant "You were awesome last night"

[dave216]

It is is a very good thing. Men like tight

[bethanie]

ur a little young to that stuff! well be careful okay?

[briandog]

this is a good thing unless it becomes painful for you

[Anonymous]

It is good to be tight at your age, nothing wrong with that.

[Anonymous]

i am tight sometimes I don't like it, I don't think my guy like it either because can't it hurt him when the person is tight.