My girlfriend fingered me and I enjoyed it , m I gay?

[Anonymous]

This happened when she was giving me a blowjob , I asked her to put a finger in my ass jokingly but she started trying , I told her I was kidding but she said she wants to do it , so she used some lotion Nd put a finger inside me , i started enjoying it that I didn't even notice she put 2 fingers in my ass but it felt good and I came quickly cuz of that , we did it several times after that , i asked her if she would use strap on dildo on me she was okay with it but does this makes me gay/ bi? M really confused

[3gmoney3]

You're a straight guy who discovered what many, many other straight guys before you have discovered: your butt can be a really fun part of sexual play. The anus is a very nerve-rich part of the body, and stimulating it triggers all sorts of tingly sensations. The prostate produces seminal fluids, so when someone massages that, it basically gives you part of the feeling of an impending orgasm. None of this makes you gay, it just means that you're open to experiencing aspects of sexual enjoyment that are, frankly, a lot more common than you realize.

Now, if you decided that you'd prefer to be doing all of this with a man, and never wanted to have sex with a woman again, that might mean you're gay. That doesn't sound like the case, though.

[madhatters4]

of course not. you are gay if you are sexually attracted to men. not because you like anal stimulation

[Rainie_]

No, you're only gay or bi if you are attracted to males. In this case you are not. Even if you were fucked by your girlfriend with a strap on you can still be straight if you are not attracted to males.
Your prostate is a sensitive point so there is no wonder you get turned on by it, doesn't have anything to do with your preference to males or females, so if you wanna get strap on fucked by your girlfriend, then do it.

[Anonymous]

Are u attracted by men? If the answer is no, then u are not bi/gay.
Straight men can totally enjoy anal penetration because it stimulates their L point, which is the equal of g point stimulation.
There are several ways to stimulate that point: a) penetration b) external massage.

[soupfairy]

No, just a little kinky. More if you wanted a dude to do it then maybe. I'm a girl and totally not into butt stuff, but it doesn't make me gay

[TinyDancingBean]

No it doesn't necessarily mean your gay.

[Bandit74]

you're pan-sexual.

[Afrochick]

Never makes you gay if it's a female doing it. Ever heard of the prostate?

[Asker]

Nope What about it?

[Jaded214]

I'm more concerned about the lotion in your ass tbh.

[Asker]

Why though , we have been doing this for last 4 months Nd I didn't have any problem

[hazoplmeught]

you should be concerned with the dildo cause that would make him 100% gay @jacquesvol what do u think?

[jacquesvol]

@hazoplmeught The day he'll see a guy in real life and he really wants sex with that guy, he'll be gay. Until then I'd say he's 'curious'.

[hazoplmeught]

@jacquesvol he has a PENIS replica being shoved up his ass, not female fingers or tongue. Please tell me how shoving a fake penis up your butt for pleasure isn't gay

[hazoplmeught]

you dont think the dildo part crossed the line though?

[jacquesvol]

Some opinions vanished here. :-o

[jacquesvol]

Nope, got them back with a refresh.

[thewanderingme]

@hazoplmeught lol lesbians sometimes use dildos. that doesn't suddenly make them straight.

[hazoplmeught]

@thewanderingme that is quenching their thirst for penis penetration, if they didn't want penetration they wouldn't use it. It is "straight" for them to do that specifically even though they are attracted to women

[thewanderingme]

riiiiight, ok ;)

[Yumix]

c'mon... are you attracted to other guys? no? then why do you think that you are gay? or bi. -_-

[Kaleiokalanikil]

do you want to have sex with a guy?

[Asker]

Nope , m not attracted to guys

[Kaleiokalanikil]

Then you're not gay

[Anonymous]

No way

[Anonymous]

Fingers no. Strap on is suspect , imagine if she asked you to put a fleshlight between your legs and she started eating it out. I imagine you watch shemale porn.

[Anonymous]

It does make you bi

[Anonymous]

Not really , it's a prostate massage

[Opinion Owner]

As long as it's with a female and your not sexually attracted to guys it won't matter what you do with her