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My boyfriend says I'm not as tight anymore?

I've been with my boyfriend for about three years. Somehow he brought up me not being as tight as I used to be. He says I'm not loose but I'm not really tight either. I lost my virginity to him and he said I was really tight like the first year we had sex but then after about a year I wasn't as tight. He's the only one I've ever been with. Has anyone had this happen or know if this is even a thing? I thought your vagina is basically one size and it doesn't really loosen up until you have kids lol?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Tell him his dick must've shrunk or something.
    There's no truth to the fact that girl's get looser over time. At least not within a year from when they lost their virginity. I'm not even sure that women are permanently loosened up after birth... perhaps when they're 50, they'll be looser than in their 20's. That's due to muscles all around the body weakening and getting 'looser'.

  • Perhaps being More Wet is the Answer and with "I'm not really tight either," this could be Why... Everything just Slides.
    The next time he tells you This, Ask him How many He has had to Compare your Snare with?
    Good luck. xx

Most Helpful Guys

  • Are you using any type of toys or any type of play down there? If not, and the only things going inside are either fingers or his penis then you might want to do some muscle exercises.
    When he is inside of you, make it as tight as possible and as long as you can, do it over and over and with time you will get used to it.

  • Put him in his place.

    Tell him that you've noticed that he isn't as hard as he used to be now that he's getting older.

    • Haha, he wasn't being a dick or anything, I'm pretty sure I asked him about it because I was curious. I guess I just want to know if this really happens

    • hahaha... It does and it doesn't. The Vag is a muscle, and if you don't keep it toned, then it will get looser. That's why kegals are so important. Do enough kegals and you can become tighter than you were when you were a virgin - even after having babies.

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  • Some of the things you do in life will work the muscles in that area. So it is "possible" that you used to do things that toned those muscles and do not do the same things any more. But it is more likely that it is his imagination.

  • Work on your vaginal muscles.. Make them strong.. And next time when his dick is inside.. Hold it so tight that his dick don't comes out.. He will stop complaining about tightness

  • Work on you PC muscles. There's tons of video out there to tell you how to do so

  • That's a natural part of life. Tell him it's his fault lol

  • I think he's just fucking with you ( no pun intended)

  • Help him find a new girlfriend

  • That is normal. He's probably watching too many porn so he needs a stronger and stronger stimulation of the penis. Kegel exercises can strengthen the vaginal muscles and the; make the vagina tight as desired.
    https://www.whitelotuseast.com/YoniExercises.htm

    • Tnx for MHG

  • apparently he's the one who have a tiny dick

  • lemme have a look ;)

  • Maybe he is not as sensitive , I doubt you stretched out more from to much sex unless it's constant , try taking a break and see if he thinks you got tighter

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