My boyfriend said his penis is sore, but we haven't had sex?

Hello, I am asking another question as this is really concerning me. My boyfriend is a trucker and he works long hours. He usually comes homes and eats, watches a little tv, then falls asleep. He woke up today, and he said "My legs are sore, my arms are sore, my penis is sore." I said "Your penis? Ummm.. we haven't had sex in like two weeks. Usually a penis is sore from sex." He said "No, like my whole body is aching from working." I said "Yeah, but your penis should not be in pain because that's usually caused from sex or a STD." He said "No everything is just sore." Now I am concerned. I am afraid he's cheating on me, because like I said we haven't had sex in like two weeks, so he shouldn't feel soreness. I never heard of a guy's penis being sore from a physical job? Is that even possible that his body aches, and so does his penis from a physical job? Or is he cheating on me, and having sex with someone else, thus the sore penis? I need opinions on this. Thank you.
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  • I think that if he was cheating, he probably wouldn't have raised your suspicions by mentioning it. After all, if he'd been cheating, he'd been doing a very good job of it for you to have no doubts previously, it'd be amateurish to mention that and it'd just make you more likely to pick up on it, y'know? Wouldn't make sense to bring up something like that if there's anything to hide. He could just be sore from sitting in one position pretty much all of the time... Or he could have some kind of fungal infection if he's been sweating whilst driving and not been able to clean up for a while on the road. I think that it may be a good idea to push him into going to see a doctor and to not have unprotected sex until you know what it is.

    • That's what a lot of my friend were saying. They said he would be the dumbest person alive if he were actually cheating and said that to me, and gave me suspicion. I had my yearly gyno exam a week ago, and she checked me for STDs because it's protocol, and she said I was normal and negative on STDS. But, he might have a fungal infection because he doesn't take showers everyday and he sweats a lot, so it could be possible. Thanks for your input.

  • I don't know why he said his penis was sore. Maybe it was throbbing and he needed sex? But yeah I've never heard it said like that.

    Good chance he was just naming every part of his body being sore

    • Yeah you have a good point there. thanks girl for commenting :)

    • Of course girlie! No problems :)

  • Did you look at it and examine it? That could tell you a lot

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  • Maybe he masturbated :P. Generally it's unlikely that the penis gets sore just from underwear or pants but if he masturbated and it was already a bit tender then it can happen that it gets more sore even from light friction. It's a bit weird that he said it was just from working that shouldn't happen. But I wouldn't be worried about cheating that's way to small a thing to start beeing paranoid. Maybe he just masturbated and he didn't wanna tell you cause he felt bad that you guys haven't had sex. I don't know.

    • Could be that lol. Thank you for your input :)

  • I have no idea what could cause that, but honestly, I am pretty sure that if he was cheating he would not raise your suspicions by mentioning that his penis is sore. I think you can toss that idea out right now. But have him see a doctor. Using your muscles a lot can make them sore, but there are no muscles in the penis. And he sure should not be using that to lift heavy weights, anyway. lol

    • You made a really good point. Thanks.

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  • Hmmmm not sure on this one. Definitely get to the doctor. Also sounds like things are progressing so get some condoms or get on the pill asap. And get him to use an antibacterial penis health creme daily so you don't pick up any of his nasty bacteria during oral and other condom-less sex acts. I use one and my girlfriend really appreciates it. You can get one online.

  • I have never had a sore penis from doing manual labor. You should not have unprotected sex with him until you get this question answered.

    • Yes, this definitely concerns me because I don't know what is going on.

  • It could be as simple as minor irritation from sitting driving all day. There are also fungal infections ( similar to athletes foot ) that can cause soreness. This stems, again, from getting a bit sweaty, like when driving.

    Every guy should make sure they keep their bits well clean and dry! Especially under the foreskin!

    • Ok, thank you for giving me this info. I appreciate it. :)

    • Also, he is isn't very clean. Lol, he doesn't take showers everyday because he's so tired. He only take a shower like two or three times a week. Kinda gross. Lol.

    • Always welcome!

  • I used to drive semi otr state to state and getting laid is nearly impossible... women think that it's some type of sex opportunity to sleep and cheat... to be honest... if a man wanted to cheat it would be easier with a regular job going home every night.

  • may be he masturbates too much

  • He is a trucker... sitting on your duff for long hours and having your dick scrunched up with very little circulation could make everything sore in your lower extremities.

    He could also just be sore over that sex would not be the most fun thing to do so he may have lumped is penis in with the list of body parts just to deter you... for now!

    • I am not in the mood. But, thank you for the info. :)

  • It can be irritated if you have a lot of thigh movements in your job. Sounds like bullshit, but could be something I haev never heard of.

    • Yeah, it's strange, I know he tarps, and does some physical work, he doesn't just sit in a truck, sometimes he has to unload, and strap, and tarp. He does do physical work, but I heard of guys that worked way harder than that, and never complained of a sore penis. Just makes me a little upset.

  • What? How... I don't know. I call bull shit. I got kicked in the nut and a knee and I'd still banged that pussy out. I'll even do a full session at the gym and will still put in work. Am I the only one that saw TWO WEEKS? That's 69-911 status. Thanks you for having us here to talk about your mans or is by the way lol. Seriously, you need to call bull shit but find some proof before you call him out on it

    • Lol, this made me laugh. Yes, I need find out more info. Thank you for commenting.

    • Yeah! But can you get laid first lol two weeks? It was suppose to say "thank you for having us here to talk about your mans penis by the way" Two weeks? I bet you have the greatest masturabting routine EVER. Lol

  • Its more than likely his way of exaggerating what he is feeling. Its like a video i saw once of a guy that said he hurt so bad from a hang over that his hair hurt. I doubt he is cheating on you. Oh and funny story, if i sit in a certain way on a certain chair in my house it causes certain things to go numb.

  • It may be due to masturbation.

  • i pray you dont have a bitch because this bitch might be sleeping with your boyfriend

    www.pmslweb.com/.../...he-bitch-funny-dog-meme.png

    bitches are known to be very kinds to humans and like to snuggle with them at night and are very affectionate creatures

    • Ummmm... ok?

    • its a joke because a female dog my definition is a bitch :l

    • by definition****

  • Never had that feeling. But I wouldn't doubt if it had something to do with him working so much and sitting in a truck all day. Does he load and unload his truck as well?
    Or ya know I can't remember my penis being sore butt one time I got sick I was so sore I felt like a truck ran over me.
    It also could be something more serious. There is a n arthritis that will make your whole body feel achey all the time.
    I highly doubt he's cheating on you.

  • You are over thinking everything...
    Yes our junk can get for because of right underwear or even because of traveling...
    It's common when someone travels in a vehicle... And add you mentioned that he drives a truck what he told you makes sense...

    Don't jump to conclusions

    • *tight

    • Alright I would say this doesn't happen all the time!

    • Ok, thanks for letting me know. I mean he does sit in a truck, but he doesn't sit all day. He does do physical work like strapping, and tarping the coils down, and some labor, but I heard of guys do way more physical work than that, and never complained of a sore penis. So it is alarming to me, but thanks for commenting.

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  • Either it's sore from jerking, or he was joking. ... Or maybe he was trying to get some by opening with a joke but the plan was nixed cuz you took him seriously ;)

    • Lol, no he was serious unfortunately. I wish he was joking, he's not the joking type he's a very serious person, and he is not the type that laughs, he's the logical, smart, serious guy type lol.

  • I don't know.. I've nver had a sore dick from work..
    Maybe it was just an expression..
    But if he meant it.. I gyess thats a possibility.

    • Maybe, but I think he was serious because he complained of having a sore penis sometimes when we had sex. Afterwards he would say it burned or hurt sometimes. I got checked multiple time for STD's because I was scared I contracted it form him, but it always shows up negative. Thank you for commenting.

    • Yeah, i guess he might be cheating. But its weird to be so obvious about it... Maybe he was trying to make you jealous so as to get sex from you? But im only guessing though...

  • appending "my penis is sore" is satire to emphasize just how sore his entire body is. i doubt his penis is really sore whatsoever.

  • Truck stop Tranny BJ'S?

  • he’s not cheating probably. maybe did something to it slap on it somehow or even madturbated too much. lol answer mine?

  • think he is doing something, i had my whole body in pain and my penis will just shrivel up, now my balls might hurt, but my penis only hurt after friction (self caused of sex) or if i did something to it like hit a tail fin on an old car riding a bike.. and even if my penis was sore from some girl with sharp teeth it don't stop me

  • it sound like he has a physical condition which affects his entire body.

    • Very true. He had Lyme's Disease and almost needed some kind of a heart blocker, and a stint, or something like that because he almost died. He told his health has deteriated ever since his Lyme's disease incident. Thank you for commenting.

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