Do guys like taking girl's virginity?

My ex-boyfriend always wanted to take my virginity. If guys like taking girl's virginity what's the reason why guys want girls virginity? I just don't understand! lol


Most Helpful Guy

  • i guess its different with every guy but I personally see it as something special. as in id rather be in a fully committed relationship to the girl before going through with it because id rather make the first time experience great and memorable for her. generally though, girls who are virgins are a lot more emotional over it there first time so id like to have her trust and make sure she is comfertable. in essense I think it makes you feel good to know that she chose you to be the one to take it from her and share it together.

    on the other hand some guys like it as an ego boost to be able to know they was the first to take their virginity but don't always value it as much. some guys would rather just have straight sex with an experienced girl though because they would want to have a good time without all the extra emotions that would be involved from a girl that gives her virginity to you. the way I see it is, experience can always be gained and nothing would compare to sharing the first time together. :)


What Guys Said 9

  • It's not so much the "taking" of the virginity that guys are attracted to. It's the fact that they know that they are the first. Which is like, "I'm the first guy to climb to the top of this mountain." or "I'm the first guy to be "allowed" to do something that no other guy has been "allowed" to do.

    For most guys it's not some evil obsession. It's not like they wear, "I'll take your viginity" tee shirts or something. It's just something that a guy will never forget. He was the first to have a girl in her life. He also knows, he won't be the last.

  • Seems to be a big deal for some immature and/or insecure guys. Personally the worst sex I ever had was with a virgin.

  • Not unless she was my girl for life! ;)

  • players do because they see it as a trophy.

    but if its your boyfriend he would like it too because he's your first

  • As a virgin myself , I wouldn't like "taking" a girl's virginity but I'd love to lose with her together.

  • they're the first one to conquer you. and plus you never forget your first one.

  • makes us feel special that we will be the first to enter you

  • Nope, it can be messy the girl acts weird, uncomfortable and nervous... and it if goes bad they will remember you as the first...


What Girls Said 2

  • No, not all guys like taking girls virginity. Most fear the girl with become "clingy", after her first time. Sounds more like a fetish or a fantasy that he might have.

  • Well, sometimes it can be for just having sex. Your ex maybe had one thing on his mind but you don't know?