What does sex feel like?

I want to know what it feels like to have sex. What I mean is what does it feel like for a girl to have sex with a guy when he slides his penis inside? I'm a virgin and I wonder what it feels like before I experience it, I'm a bit nervous, I almost feel like the 40 year old virgin.

 

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  • It feels a bit odd cause there is something inside you. Like deep inside you. And it's odd that the "something" in you, belongs to someone else!

    Obviously sex feels very good cause of all the nerve endings in your vagina but I think for me, what was so odd for me at the beginning, is being so physically close to someone. Because you don't have that with anyone else in your life. So it's a bit odd to be naked, pressed up against a person, sweating, making weird noises and hearing them make weird noises. It's very disarming. So for me, that is always such a huge part of it. Having someone give you a really unique feeling and giving that feeling to them at the same time.

    But how it feels when he slides his penis inside you can feel kind of different depending on the time. Like if you are really wet and turned on it feels much nicer cause he slides in and out easily so you can focus on the pleasure. Or if you aren't that wet it's a little rougher, not always in a good way. Or it can be uncomfortable. Or it can feel like there is a spot you want him to hit with his penis and he isn't hitting it. So it's frustrating. Like an itch that isn't getting scratched. Or he can actually hit the spot over and over again and it feels so good you want to hit the roof. Cause you feel so satisfied. It can also make you feel "filled up". Like sometimes when he slides out completely, I notice that my vagina is a hole which I really not think about otherwise. If that makes sense. You realize something is missing from it.

    But the emotional aspect is huge. It's what makes sex really enjoyable. Cause even if you don't feel love or care, you might feel beautiful or you might feel powerful or vulnerable. What's happening in your mind if a huge part of it. it's not just the in and out that makes it feel good. Both men and women get an emotional rush from sex (whether it's an ego boost or a feeling of love). And I think that's what makes it so addictive. Cause if that wasn't there, the good feelings in your crotch would go numb really quick.

What Guys Said 2

  • Every experience I've ever read on this site from a girl who lost her virginity said that it's very very painful the first time. I highly suggest that not only you make sure he puts on a condom but use plenty of KY. I have never been with a virgin. Never had the desire to be with one. I'm only attracted to what some call sluts. However, it seems there are guys out there who can't resist deflowering yet one more virgin. I believe they just force their penis inside her with any concern of the pain it will cause the girl. Don't allow this to happen to you. Tell him you want him to be as gentle as possible while trying to insert his penis. Your hymen will break but there is little reason why it needs to be any more painful than what it may naturally be.

    • Why do they have to be sluts? Why are you only attracted to those girls? You can go out with a girl that has had a boyfriend and sex, it doesn't have to be one extreme or another, virgin or slut but thanks for the advise.

  • every girl I've ever known wondered the same thing until they had sex then they can't stop wanting it.

    • Oh I know that after I do it I won't stop wanting it. But I still want to know what it feels like.

What Girls Said 2

  • haha me too!

  • it feels as something moving around inside your body if you can imagine it. it feels soo good and it sends shivering up the back. it feels like your vagina is throbbing too but it feels good.

    • Wow that's hot!

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