Does fingering hurt if she's a virgin?

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So here's the deal. My girlfriend doesn't want to have sex until she graduates, and I am 100% fine with that. But she told me that she still wants to do other stuff, and the other night it got pretty heated and she put my hand down her shorts, but I was too afraid to do anything because I don't want to hurt her. So I want to know, does fingering hurt if she is a virgin? By the way, I am even less experienced than she is, that is why I am asking this.

Lifehurts03 · Accepted Answer

I totally agree with you here's why I agree it happen at the movies today we where watching slender man but we both seen it on separate occasions we went on a double date my sister and her boyfriend sat three rows away from us and we sat in the front and we where sharing a seat and he started rubbing my butt and kissing my necking and he knows when he kisses my neck I won't say no suddenly he unbutton my pants and started doing things then all all of a sudden he dove in and it hurt I told him it hurt but he covered my mouth and kissed my neck and said it gets better ever time he went in he would kiss me so I would scream in his mouth i trusted him but I was not relaxed at all i don't know if I should leave him or stay because he is the only person I can count on in my life

toulouse · Accepted Answer

It hurt ME, A LOT. Some people say NO it doesn't..

But yeah it made me kind if REALLY freaked out about actually having the REAL thing.

& Even without THAT to speak from, I always wonder how girls can be like well it HURT REALLLLL BAD , BUT I JUST LET HIM KEEP GOING & NOW IT FEELS SOOOOOOOO GOOD^

SERIOUSLY - I mean I can't imagine just sitting there letting the guy you are supposed to TRUST to support you HURT you just cause you don't want to look bad or hurt HIM

wtf - you know ? - anyways thanks for asking lol

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

no fingering does not hurt if she's a virgin, but really it'll be more fun for her if you rub her clitoris. Its her g spot and its located near the front. Don't immediately start rubbing her there, you can mess around a little bit down there then start rubbing lightly in the g spot. increase pressure if you think it is right, and it won't take too long for her to feel the pleasure of this.

hope it helped

soslin711 · Accepted Answer

No, it shouldn't. Since you're not that experienced either... I wouldn't go trying to bust out some crazy moves though.. just go gentle at first and start off with one finger. If you both are comfortable with it..and you really wanna drive her crazy... get down and lick/suck on her clit while you're fingering her. She'll be moaning within seconds. =)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Fingering shouldn't hurt no matter if she's a virgin or not, but if she's a virgin you certainly want to be more gentle.  These are some tips for fingering without hurting

inquizitor911 · Accepted Answer

Fingering a virgin almost always never hurts, unless you're Edward Scissorhands, or you have really long fingernails. :) You should be just fine, don't worry.

katiesmuff · Answer

Just go slow and easy and it should be just fine.

vampretta · Answer

no it doesn't hurt at all

Anonymous · Answer

I am a virgin, and it may hurt depending on how wet and turned on she is... There are times when I have been fingered and it hurts and (even if I am wet). Seriously, my vagina will feel like it's super tight and then more open within a minute! so just go slow and if it is hurting her, then pull your finger out. I have had one guy get two finger up but that started to hurt after about a minute. Usually one is plenty for me.

Anonymous · Answer

It shouldn't hurt her. Just be gentle to start with and pay attention. She'll let you know if something's wrong I'm sure. Have fun :)

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