How can I remove my bush so I could have sex for the first time? Girl and guy help needed!

[Anonymous]

I have been shaving my bush area ever since it started growing in because it made me feel like an animal its grown very black & thick I wanna lose my virginity but the hair makes me feel in secure is there a way to remove it with cremes or lotion? I don't want to wax . And how do you guys like your p**** to look? and girls how do you girls keeep them? Help I'm embarrassed to ask my mom or sister .

[saphirasilverwings]

I would stay away from creams and lotions- they can burn and irritate the very sensitive skin of that area.

You could try simply trimming the hair shorter with scissors for now. You'll probably want to do that in preparation for another method of hair removal anyway. Just trimming might be enough to help you feel neater down there.

You can shave if you want the hair completely gone and don't want to wax. Use a soothing shaving cream for sensitive skin, and take your time. Be careful and gentle and shave in the direction of the hair growth. Afterward, use a calming after shave to moisturize the skin. If you get ingrown hairs (irritated bumps from hairs growing back the wrong way), use a salicylic acid solution to treat them.

Good luck!

[vampretta]

i find cremes to sting.

i dislike the razor as its a pain to keep shaving.

i just trim, pluck the odd hair here and there with tweezers mainly bikni line.

each method has its advantages and disadvantages

[Il_Fonz]

Here' my stock answer to the daily pubic hair question:

Keep in mind the whole bald thing is just a current trend. If anyone is aghast at the sight of pubic hair he is probably pretty young and grew up on contemporary mainstream porn which features little to no hair. Biologically, pubic hair is a secondary sex characteristic. It is one of the features that distinguishes little girls from fertile females. That being the case, anyone who is turned off by it has been conditioned by popular sexual aesthetics. Besides, no one has ever said to a lady, "Hey, nice mons pubis!"

[Anonymous]

"And how do you guys like your p**** to look?"

I don't care about hair one way or another as long as it's clean. You should do what makes you feel comfortable, but if that's the biggest issue you've got with loosing your virginity, you should count your blessings.

[TheAnswerer]

A razor may help.

Do it twice a week and you'd be fine.

[Asker]

Its going to be black and thick . I don't want that

[TheAnswerer]

As long as you keep shaving frequently (and a day before you have sex), no one will know that it has become thick and black. But still, if you don't want it, fine.

[Asker]

Well thanks for the advise (: does it feel prickly when your near it if you shave .?

[TheAnswerer]

It starts feeling prickly after 2 days. If you shave it the day before someone will see or feel it, you'd be fine. Also, it starts getting thick and black only after you shave it 10+ times or something. Until then, there's no prickly feeling even 3 days after shaving.

[inquizitor911]

If you don't want to wax, you'll just have to take a razor to it every couple of days. That's about all that you can do.

[Jackiegurl]

Just trim it a bit with scissors

[andyandyrandy]

Do u trim

[soccerbmxwow]

some guys are really against hair there I don't really care

as long as its trimed I am fine with it

most important person to ask is your lover ask him/her what they want