If you've been with the girl for months, you can tell when she is about to orgasm or has orgasmed. These are some obvious signs based on own experiences, though not applicable to all women:
1. Her vulva and clitoral areas pulsate.
2. Her thrusting or grinding becomes steadily rapid
3. Her breathing becomes heavy
4. Her body (e. g. legs, belly, chest) shivers
5. Her vulva becomes wetter, or oozes a light or thick fluid
6. Tears from her eyes
7. She claws your back or chest with her fingers firmly
8. She asks you to grab her boobs or butt harder
9. She says, "don't stop, don't stop, stop"
10. She tells you candidly you made her cum
if she is a squirter she won't be able to hide her orgasms if you are fingering her, if she isn't then just have to play it by ear, the more you do it the better you get. if you are too aggressive then tone it down, if you are acting too soft then ramp it up. learn how she responds and then you'll have your answer
Women can have MANY different types and strength orgasms. They can be like happy rolling hills or a drop off the high dive. If she has a strong orgasm she will tense, twitch, or moan.
Personally it feels like my body and brain short circuit, I don't even know what to do with myself for a minute besides twitch.
Each women is different as to what makes her cum, and to make it harder (pun intended) it can be different for the same women on different days. The best way to know is to ask her what feels best, try something new and see if she responds positively.
The full orgasm is the most intense part of the experience so it should get the strongest reaction. Tending up, twitching, noises that she can't control, jolts through her body, and if a part of you is inside her as she cums you should feel her pussy clenching around you. There will also be a sudden spike in wetness.
Uh, if you don't know if she orgasmed, she didn't. As for "stuff squirting out" not all women have the occurrence of female ejaculation, most just have a very... uh, clear physical reaction.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!For most women, her breathing changes and she'll probably start moving her hips. Some women will moan or cry out, her muscles will tense, and her back might arch. You might just want to ask her.
Although girls have some signs, she might have to tell you
her lips will clench lol
believe me me you will know if she does
Women don't always cum when they orgasm, but you will know because her body will react.
Even if she isn't shaking, her vagina will be contracting and you'll be able to feel it.
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