It's a crime of passion almost. You just get caught up in the moment and you want to do it to see how she's going to react. Sometimes you do it just as an experiment to see what she likes and sometimes it's a male dominance thing.
A lot of girls like it though in my experience as long as it's not too hard. Also, sometimes it's just part of rough sex, and you can't really be too conservative because then there's nothing really rough about it. I've had girls who love it when I pull their hair, slap their ass, even lightly choke them. Sometimes she just wants me to treat like just a piece of meat, she gets off on it, and I don't mind playing to her fantasy. There's always an extreme though. As of yet though, I haven't had to crack out the ball gag and whip for a girl. I've thought about it and although it'd be awkward for me at first I think, if she was really into it I'd indulge her. I'd certainly never suggest it though, haha.
Getting back to ass slapping I imagine she likes the fact that it's kinda taboo, or maybe she's even into the whole male dominance thing as well. Part of it is just the natural contrast between pain and pleasure, it just adds a lot of perspective. Pleasure becomes a lot more pleasurable when directly compared the pain and it's not uncommon for people to actually respond positively when experiencing two extremes at the same time. It's like when you enjoy the taste of something that is both bitter and sweet, or you are soothed by menthol rub that feels both hot and cold. People even blatantly speak about it. When it's really hot, they wish they could just jump into the arctic ocean, when it's really cold all they can think about is spending a day in the desert. No body wants to just find a place that's room temperature because it just wouldn't provide as much relief as the extreme.
Slapping a woman's ass during sex falls into the category of "time and place for everything." My wife and I go for a nice walk around the neighborhood. I slap her ass at the finish. I get punched in the face. Wrong time, wrong place. Science shows our body is a web of neurons, all connected. I slap my wife's ass during sex it lets her know that I'm enjoying myself, that I view her ass as a sexual part of her and that by slapping it, I want her to feel aroused and feel my arousal. I want you to take off your Mary Jane's and be bad, and by being bad, be very, very good, and very, very safe. It's also an opportunity for her to offer something more to the experience... show me you're into this without words, show me you desire me so much that you can barely contain yourself. You think you're dominating me? Show me. Take it up a notch. Show me that man that no one else gets to enjoy this way and I will show you a woman that can do more than show you how Excel works, and that throwing puffed rice at a wedding is just wrong. Basically, slapping is just a way of saying I have an ass, you have a hand, you say you want to rock my world, let's see if you can. Time and place. Try nibbling your wife's ear in church and see how well that goes! Consensual, naughty, and three hours later she's telling you how nice the lawn looks and you're complimenting her on how nice she looks when she wears blue.
i have this done every time me and my boyfriend have sex...i duno why he does it but I think it is really really hot...at the time I'm not concentrating on the pain...
i just think its his way of letting me know he's having a GREAT TIME...i don't know why some girls don't like it...i LOVE a nice hard slap on my ass during sex...it really gets me going.
we even use that as a kind of signal when we are in a public place...like if he's behind me and then slaps my ass that's his way of saying to me..."i want that now" I said no one day and he was totally dominant and pushed me against the wall...it was REALLY ROUGH but I don't like what people call the normal way to have sex I prefer rough all the way and he likes it too.
as for the slap on the ass...I LOVE IT! haha...i think some girls don't like it because it involves pain...
Because he digging you Poonanay and it feels so gooood! Not only that he beating them walls where a little smack makes you more aroused like a race horse when you smack it, it goes faster especiall if it got ass. I'm just saying and keeping it all the way 1,000. Forget what you heard, this is not a test. It is "baby the Vgina feels so good and vice-versa. If he don't tap that ass, he ain't loving you right.. Str8 up. I am intellegent, educated, but let the truth be what it is. Shout out to all the men hitting it right. Mine is and got me cool-whipped.
I lie to you not this is very true👌🏾
Yessir! What u said! Absolutely 100%
Burst out laughing reading this how wonderful to know he's liking it when he spanks me. I'm liking the spank 😂and the D to be honest.
I figured guys liked to do that because they don't get to normally. Like, I would probably be pretty pissed off if my guy just randomly did that to me in public, but when we're in bed, I like him to let loose and do stuff he doesn't get to normally. :) It's a matter of pushing boundaries and getting to do things you aren't allowed to do in public. What really gets me off is knowing that he is getting off on it. ;)
I agree
My girl grabs my ass all the time in public:) And the stuff in front, when no one is looking. I sometimes slap or grab her ass as well. It's fun:)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I like it cuz it makes me wet. I think because I have a dominant personalit, it's attractive for the man to be dominant in the bedroom.
its good to feel the soft skin and then hear the smack noise.gets me going and I think it gets most girls going too.so do you like it too?
Yeah I love it. Its like letting me know that he is in control.
i don't know why they do it. I like it. I think its HOT. it gets me going a little more. lol
Glad I'm not the only one.
I think for me its the feel of her ass that's a turn on! To feel her soft skin!
Duh, because it makes an awesome noise.
Hahahahaha
Seriously though, its just really fun to do. Lol terrible response on my part I guess because I can't exactly figure out why.
Its ok I understand though.
It means he is really turned on, so don't complain:)
The sound, its a great visual, the guy feels in control
This sounds like a question from someone who like been spanked, its sexy and different
I like it, because my man like it.
I really love it, especially when me and my boyfriend is having sex and he slaps me ass and he starts going harder and harder which I like to call fucking my brains out
My partner is a sadist and I am a masochist. It is a huge turn on for him.
I personally love being under his control. His spanking my ass during sex is just a reminder of who is in charge.
In other instances I may just get a spanking just so I remember that I am to obey.
Two men did that to me during sex and I was offended the first time. I thought it was a way to tell me to lose it. The second time, I started thinking it until they kept doing it and it turned me on!! That was a hot night, for sure!
I personally don't think its a turn on really when i'm slapped.. like the feeling of the slap is so opposite to the sexual feeling already going on. But I like it if he is enjoying himself by doing that to me. pinning down parts of my body at certain angles for the purpose of him fucking me is way hotter. I get turned on by verbal things mostly. It makes it so real. Like when the guy tells me I'm just a hole or that he wants to stretch me out and acts like he has complete control over my body. TURNS ME ON. hair pulling is cute too but i feel like everyone does that so its whatever.
I've had my guy do it but usually when we are done he will slap my ass as if to say I'm done with you.
hhaahaha thats hott
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