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Can a girl be too wet? guys answer this please :)

so I'm seeing this guy and I like him blah blah blah. he drinks a lot of beer... like 3 pitchers to himself and so we start fooling around and having a good time then he looses his hard on... so he goes to the bathroom, we smoke a cigarette and go back to it. every things good then he looses it again... he likes to tell me its cause I get TOO wet! is it possible for me to get too wet? I mean honestly I thought guys liked it wet... not to mention it hurts when a girls not wet... we will go to bed cause he won't be able to get off and in the morning every things fine, which makes me believe its not that I'm too wet but cause he's been drinking.. also we had sex in a car at a national coney island on st pattys day and he had no problem then... and we both had a lot to drink that night... so is it a combination of beer that's making him go weak? and the excitement of being in public got him off?
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  • So as you probably are aware, most women are not the same each time they are aroused. Sometimes you have a normal wet, and sometimes it’s excessive. There is a thing of being “too wet” because if there is too much lubrication, there is no friction to cause stimulation of the penis. Without the stimulation, there can be no orgasm or minimal pleasure. There is also a opposite to this too. If there is too little lubrication, then it is painful for both and not pleasant also. If you get “too wet” try wiping yourself off really quick and go back at it. It tends to help most of the time

  • The wetter, the better.

    When you get wetter, it means you are aroused. So, he gets turned on when he sees that you're aroused.

    That is a positive thing. Getting wet causes only positive feelings for both sides.

    I don't think that a single male in this website will complain because his girlfriend gets "too wet", and I mean it. You can make a poll if you want. If even 1 male selects the "I don't like my girlfriend to get wet during sex" option, I would be surprised A LOT.

    • Why should you be surprised? There's wet and then there's sloppy wet. Don't forget I never said what I prefer so don't speak for me. But there is a difference.

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  • Could most certainly be his beer intake. That’s a common problem in guys and they’ll often use other excuses to protect their ego. You may try to combat the “too wet” feeling he complains of with kegal exercises and tightening around him when he’s inside you.

  • You're telling too much information, for one. No one cares about if you can squirt, most girls can.

    No, a girl can never be too wet and I wouldn't take the blame for him getting soft if I were you, if he drinks less, he can keep it up longer.

  • i never heard of a girl getting to wet I did it several times and I think you must be wet enough at the time ur having sex that's funny I don't know what the problems is everything seems fine...

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  • He is embarrassed that he lost his erection and is trying to blame you.

    Watch out for those types.

    He drank to much and couldn't get it to stay up.

  • Sounds like he drank himself soft and he's looking for an excuse. He's grabbing at straws and trust me, it can never be too wet :-)

  • Too wet?

    hahahahaha!

    This guy's yanking your chain. Wet is good good good. He's too drunk, that's the problem, and rather than admit he's been drinking too much, he prefers to blame it on you.

    I would be careful. If he doesn't curb his drinking then you're going to find yourself the scapegoat for a lot of problems that his drunkeness gets him into.

  • He's got whiskey dick.

    • So happy I’ve never had that happen to me in the best of the moment lol

  • No such thing as too wet...unless we drown.

  • He is getting what you call whiskey d***, and the reason is because of the alcohol, a little bit alcohol is OK, but too much can be bad, as you experienced, Not only the alcohol but smoking also plays a part in why he can't stay hard.

  • Well, *I* don't think a girl can get too wet, but others may have a different opinion. Sounds like whisky d*** to me. Too much beer.

  • Yes, it is very possible for a woman to get too wet. Lubrication is good though too much is excessive. You don't want it to look like you had a water balloon fight on the bed after sex.

    • Well no, see I don't think I get too wet at all... and 1/2 the time he thinks I come I havent....

    • That may be a communication issue. There are ways a guy can tell if a girl climaxes like dilated pupils, muscle contractions, etc. Tell him or show him what makes you tick and you both will be happier. The key to the female orgasm isn't the size of his manhood or really anything he can do but it is locked away in the woman's mind. If she isn't comfortable, relaxed, etc. she may not climax at all.

  • No. His brain was "wet" with alcohol.

  • Wet is great.

    I just think he is a wimp lol...geez...that would b so awkward losing it...um bahahahhahaa

    tell him to lose the beer

  • It is likely possible that he can't perform the best because of "one too many", so when you know you two will have sex just have him drink one or two max, then after you are both satisfied he can go on drinking

  • A woman can definitely be too wet, but she has to be soaking. Like to the point that she's got a waterfall between her legs.

  • It's the booze. Too much and it's what we call "whiskey d***ing"

    My girl prefers it when I drink a little because it makes me last longer but too much and it can be impossible to stay up.

    Never in my life have I heard of a dude thinking his girl was too wet... that's just ridiculous.

  • of course its the drinking. don't even attempt when he's drunk. to keep his erection he will have to have the concentration of a monk. and since he drinks he probably doesnt. I poersonally love it we girls get wet. you can go deeper and harder. her getting wet and swollen makes me feel li[ke I'm doing my job.

  • Yeah it means you are horny and yes girls can get wet

  • no, year probably a squirter ...

  • hahaha! He's too drunk and blames his flacidness on you to cover up his drunkiness :P

    Too wet is too much of a good thing my dear, just don't have sex with him when he's had too much to drink.

  • Yes, there is wet and there is a flood. I was with one girl who was cute and really wanted to be with me. So at her place we started to make out and I very quickly touched her down there and it was shocking to me how wet she was. I couldn't help wonder if she had pee'd on herself. Sorry to say that it was a turn off to me. But let me say, it was ten times more wet than any other woman I have ever been with. Just one of those unusual things, and it just really surprised me more than anything else.

  • Your man is just a pansy. There is no such thing as too wet. Don't let him kid you. The wetter the better. Alcohol has scientific proof to soften a guy up. Tell him to stop being such a lush. be careful though- most guys drink because they are bad in bed or don't last long sso they drink for stamina and to "no numb"...be careful how you break it to him. Help him control his drinks.

    BTW..how wet are we talking? Example?

    • Haha like I can squirt, so I get pretty damn wet.... but I haven't squirted for him....

  • No, he just can’t keep it up so he blamed you for it. It has nothing to do with you, he’s just insecure.

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