Passionate sex or wild sex?

[PatrickRory]

do most girls enjoy passionate sex with the hair pulling, the biting, scratching, heavy breathing and the kissing and looking into each others eyes or do girls mostly just want it rough and wild and crazy and fun...not saying passionate sex can't be crazy and fun its just usually more mellow but definitely can have the same amount of pleasure and wild sex. iv had both and honestly I feel more comfortable being passionate than wild...although that's not always the truth...i just found most of the girls I talk to about sex say they like it rough and when a guy tries to get passionate and intimate it gets 'weird' thoughts? if any?

[BriTheFunFactor]

Well I like things to get dirty, but there must be an understanding of what "too rough" actually is because we are still females and vulnerable. It can be rough and intimate at the same time. Like me and my guy are aggressive but in a very passionate way and even though our hands are being wild and crazy, the way we look at each other is completely sincere. Like, he will grab my neck dominantly and then kiss is very softly...ect. So really alternating is the most enjoyable to me! And in the middle of getting wet and wild, throw in there " You couldn't look more beautiful right now!" It was an unforgettable moment for me =)

[ActingOnInstinct]

Actually, I think that the two should always be intertwined. There should be some moments of that crazy, fast, hard, hair-pulling, nail-scratching sex, that twists you into positions you never envisioned possible - and there should be some moments of that close, face-to-face, staring-deep-into-the-eyes sex, moments later. Too much wildness can get exhausting, but too much passion can become boring. Variety makes the sex exciting and unpredictable.

[PatrickRory]

I like your answer a lot but how would could you transition between the two to make it not completely obvious but maintain the level of enjoyment?

[ActingOnInstinct]

It's hard for me to answer that, because I think there is no transition in sex. You're on your back one moment, and the next you're flipped over, facing downwards... It's not like you can slowly, slowly transition from one position to the next - it would be too weird (and not fun). The excitement is in the surprise of suddenly switching it up. Its like, "wow we were nice-and-easy two seconds ago, and now we're speeding up the pace". There is no transition - only sudden, exciting change.

[ActingOnInstinct]

The way that you say "without making it completely obvious" sounds like you would be over-thinking it. Just follow whatever moves you at the time... if you feel overcome with energy, do the fast and furious - if you feel like you need a break, slow things down. Don't let your brain do the thinking, just listen to what your body wants in the moment.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

... actually I like it fast and hard, and I have a biting fettish. As for the hair pulling, I have short hair, so f*** that. I'm a very dominant person so I would not find it acceptable if a guy pulled my hair. Rough sex can be very intimate it just depends on your relationship to the girl.

[PatrickRory]

Yeah I forgot the rough intimate sex. it can be so amazing if your in the right mood, its so much better than both if you do it right. and what's wrong with hair pulling, you can do that in rough sex and have it be real sensual. but with short hair...i guess its just not plausable

[slappy_bender]

I love it when my girl bites and claws. I like it passionately too. Once I was hitting that spot just right with my girl and I could tell and she just hauled off and slapped me in the face. Turned me on ever more. I think timing is everything though. If you are feeling something, then go with it and if your partner responds see how far they want to go with it.

[yAbz_0307]

before I have sex, imagine wild sex with my boyfriend which makes me horny. but when we do, I love it more when he gives me a passionate sex. it makes me feel so loved. and the slow moves is so far more enjoying than rough ones. it gives me a lot more and faster production of orgasm.

[virginlonggone]

There is always a time for each

wild = girl really horny just wants sex

passionate = she feels very loved and said she loves you and is all lovey dovey then that is when the time is right

[melissaloveselliot]

more like the first one

[savvyridley]

Passionate, the wild kind is good too

[Happyfeet]

I like passionate and wild sex with a bf, but if its just a guy I want to hook up I always want it wild. : )

[Anonymous]

It's all about balance, when you're in a relationship passionate sex is a must. It makes you feel loved and connected to your partner, but other times you just wanna have fun, lighthearted crazy sex. I think passionate sex only gets weird when it's with someone you're not in a relationship with. Honestly I don't think I could choose one or the other, they're both important to a good relationship and both equally fun at different times.