Erection sitting on lap?

Girls: If you are sitting on a guy friends lap, and he gets a big erection, are you more offended or flattered? Do you get off, or stay on?

also, Guys: what do you do if a girl is on your lap and you get a boner?


Most Helpful Girl

  • I don't really make a habit of sitting on my guy friends' laps because I don't have any kind of flirtatious relationships with them. I wouldn't sit on a guy friend's lap unless there was mutual flirtation, where you both know you kind of dig each other, or just to be funny. In which case the guy would be more like a friendly acqaintence than a close friend. I have several closer guy friends I would never dream of doing that to because that's simply not the nature of our interactions. I wouldn't be able to be close friends with them if there was romantic interest on my part. Sexual interest, I could deal with, but wouldn't act on because I've seen what it can do to friendships, and my friendships are important to me. Plus I feel like lap-sitting is kind of flirting overkill when you don't even know if the guy is into you. I know plenty of girls who would flirt in that manner, but I'm not one of them.

    So -hypothetically- if I was sitting on a guy friend's lap and he got a boner, I wouldn't be offended, because I wouldn't be sitting on his lap unless I kinda liked him and vice versa. And logically I know that a guy can't -always- control his body's reaction to stimulation, even if it's as simple as mentally knowing a girl's ass is in his lap, and physically feeling the pressure of it, when she might not actually be doing anything to provoke said reaction. It's just nature. I wouldn't advertise the fact that I knew to anyone else who might be around. I'd probably just quirk an eyebrow at him and stay where I was until there was an opportunity to let him up without risk of embarrassment on his part. So I don't know that I'd be flattered exactly, but I wouldn't be offended. Probably somewhere between understanding and flattered, and I would make sure he knew that I understood and wasn't p*ssed off, haha. =P I'd hate if he felt humiliated because he -thought- I'd be mad.

    • Well said indeed! I feel like your answer is the stamp which seals this question. I would have to say, if I were the owner of a vagina, I would feel the same as you do.

    • Hahah, thank you very much! I have a habit of being unnecessarily specific sometimes, but it seems to have served its purpose for once. =P

What Girls Said 8

  • well, it depends on my relationship with the guy. but most likely falttering. I'd probably stay on, though kind of embarresing.

    • "depends on my relationship with the guy." how so? ...lets say he's a good friend of yours who you hang out with?

    • If I liked him I wouldn't mind (like my answer above). if it was someone I considered a second brother, I'd probably get grossed out, but wouldn't get too freaked out. deep down still flattered.

  • I would feel flattered, though slightly embarrased. I would most likely stay on.

  • id love it lol but that's jus tme

  • I would be so fucking flattered. That's like one thing id love to happen. Id stay on his lap and tease him a little more for the fun of it.

  • I would be flattered, but I've never done that.

  • Well id be more flattered than offended! but if he was just a friend I wouldn't say anything just incase I embarrassed him...and yeah I'd probably get off!

  • No idea. Never sat on a guys lap though. Well I did sit on one guys lap once but he couldn't get a boner to save his life...

    • Lol were you like trying to give him a boner when you were on his lap? that's kinda naughty :P

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    • Dang gotta feel kinda sorry for the guy, maybe you should slip some viagra into his drink? :D

    • Oh how I thought about it. I gave up and just dumped him and found someone to get it done. After the 3 hour nude session where it fell down twice I was FRUSTRATED.

What Guys Said 4

  • I just had a dream that I was on a bus talking to a school girl about her medium format film camera and as I was about to get off her friend came and sat on my lap and asked if she could do this on every journey as she fancied me.I said nothing as I was lost for words, but woke up shortly after with a massive hard on.

  • Correct me if I'm wrong but don't you have to stay on in order to get off...

    • I tip my hat to your with good sir

  • I love being horny, and I love getting boners when I am with girls.

    If I liked this girl and wouldn't mind having sex with her, then I would not try to hide my boner, I would just let it be and enjoy the moment. Possibly start caressing her thigh and smell her hair.

    I am a sexual beast though =P

  • haha I never thought of this question but it is good, lol, well I would not be ashamed of it because well it would be natural to get a boner as a girl sits on your lap, it is just natural and well I would just sit there and see how the girl reacts, if she stays it means she is looking for something but if she gets up it means that well she was just not expecting that. in my point, I would not do nothing just sit there and see what the girl does.

    • I can see what you mean. I would probably be too emberassed and not want her to feel it though