Is anal going to hurt?

[Anonymous]

my husband has been begging me to let him do me anally but i haven't been to hot on the idea , despite all of the anal porn videos we have watched together i still don't know, some of the girls look like it really hurts but they try to hide it because you know they're supposed to act like they're enjoying it , i just want to know is it going to hurt , will i have a better orgasm ( i was told anal orgasms where better ) is it true that ill feel like i have to shit the whole time. Does anyone have real life experience because i could use some advice? Im starting to feel bad because he wants to do it so bad but im scared , and then i feel like if i do let him and it hurts he won't stop because to guys everything feels good and every guy he's talked to said it felt better than vaginal plus i don't want to ruin it for him by making him stop ya know oh and my husbands penis is really big its over 7 and a half inches and its really thick

[Azara]

i dont understand why he'd keep asking in the first place when you're clearly uncomfortable.

it should be OK to ask, he's done that. you're not in to it. he should respect that.

watching porn is not going to help bc those women get paid A LOT to grin and bear it. they look like they are in pain bc they are in pain.

if you guys did try it there show;d be an agreement that you stop if you want. it would be insane for him to keep going if yo were in pain. and no he can't 'keep going' if you say stop. you know made or not thats illegal. its rape.

i wouldn't try anything with someone who's asking for it when i dont want it and im not sure they'd stop if i was in pain bc it feels so god to them. he doesn't sound like a husband he sounds like an friends with benefits.

he's your husband he's suppose to care.

anyhow I've said my opinion on the ethical side of things. im sure others will fill in on the physical.

i do know you have to work up to it. jut the fact thinks asking and watching porn is enough is a very very bad sin. and yes if you dont prepare it will hurt. and most women say it feels like shitting in reverse. and sometimes they shit in the right direction. sorry it does happen. not very romantic.

i really ope you dont do it if yo dont want to. its just not something that should be done if yore not into it.

[selmo93]

Only done it 3 times, it will hurt at first. Not going to lie. Use a lot of lube. You won't need a shit during but Might do after
Not all men like it though. My boyfriend said it's too tight a hole so not all men do.

[Dantheman101]

Oh my to much now 😳😉😉

[selmo93]

@Dantheman101 haha ;)

[Dantheman101]

Reading this this early is not good 😉👍😂

[xxmamichulaxx]

So you're husband is begging you to try anal even though you don't want to do it? Tell him no. You're not obligated to do whatever he wants in bed if you don't want to do it

[AndyOh]

My advice is to start getting your ass used to the idea of something going in to it instead of going out. Get a decent sized toy, maybe a small one first, so you can start to get comfortable with the feeling.
Also, learn how to give yourself an enima. About three cleanings usually will clean you out pretty good.
If your man has a big cock, I would suggest using a lot of lube after you are good and warmed up and loose. Anal probes can be pretty painful if not done by a trained professional, or someone who will go slow and easy and work with you to get it in. If your man is a good man, he will understand and either stop, go slow, or pull out and try again another time.
If you can get it in, you might find that it is quite pleasurable. There are many women and men who enjoy anal sex... not sure if it feels better then vaginal sex, but it is a nice alternative for me as a man. Good luck

[AndyOh]

Thanks for the MHO. So how did it go? Good? OK? Or... meeeh?

[Yumix]

if you're afraid that it will hurt, meaning you're uptight, and if both of you have no experience... then yes, the likelihood is quite high. but you shouldn't give up after the first try, it needs experience.

I'd recommend you making your own experiences with some toys first

[summiter]

My former girlfriend hated it, even when we used tons of lube. So we stuck with vaginal sex which was wonderful. How is your sex life with him otherwise?

[abc3643]

Say no to anal. If he wants to do it anally, send him to Ogunquit Maine.

[reptocarl]

Use lots of lube

[Intraluminal]

Buy "The Joy of Anal Sex" the book covers everything. Have him read it too.

[dudeman]

its gonna hurt real good.

[Regulatus]

If your hubby packs a decent size of meat, it's going to hurt like hell. Some girls get used to it. Only a very few women actually like it. For married women it's usually the first thing they stop doing, followed by blow jobs.

[LolaJones]

Hahaha! That's funny--you mean sex stop being fun once marriage happens? That's what I hear. I wish to meet a nice guy one day and I will give him all good stuff even after marriage

[bighairy1]

Lots of lube, you might also try desensitizing cream - he needs a condom or it will numb him some.

[masterkamasutra]

use the lube and be cool, it be fun for sure but its better than vaginal, i dont agree fully.

[Elliot0_07]

I think you're being selfish here. He loves you, provides the better for you, and all he's asking from you is your asshole. Even if it hurts you SHOULD do this for him. He is going to cheat on you soon or later.

[Forever91]

My ex used to hate it in the beginning saying it felt like rocks, but after awhile she was loving it, deep hard and willing for it

[Anonymous]

GiRLLLLLLLLL let me tell you first don't have anything to eat make sure your stomach is empty so u want feel like u have to shit and make sure he gets u really really wet because if he has a big dick its going to hurt and last but not least make sure he goes in real slow and make sure your comfortable have fun

[Anonymous]

Honestly, it feels like you are gonna poop. It feels weird like and yes, a person can poop too after it.