Do girls compare their boyfriend's penis to the ex's?

When you ladies move on to a new man, does the thought of a previous lover's penis ever come to mind? Have you ever moved to someone who was smaller and wished for the your current lover to be around the size of an ex?

 

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  • Do I notice penis size, yes.Do I compare penis size with exes, no.Do I compare sex with the exes, yes.I have moved to someone smaller before, but the sex was much better, so I didn't even notice. The only reason I take note of the sex compared to the penis size is because every guy makes such a big deal about it. If they didn't, I wouldn't even pay attention.I will compare sex with my exes, and if the sex is worse, I will wish that my current lover would be in the same skill range as my ex.I must whole heartedly disagree with yellowsidewalkchalk. Size does not play a huge factor. Bigger and thicker does not mean better for me. And I think the popular belief is the opposite, that size matters.Also, if a guy didn't do that 'extra' work, like fingering, well I wouldn't be enjoying it that much anyway. It's just laziness. Imagine if I didn't touch yours or did anything with my mouth because I have a vagina that can take in the entirety your giant d***. That would be lazy on my part, and you certainly wouldn't enjoy it as much than if I had. I just felt like I had to mention that, even though it doesn't exactly relate to the question directly.Although, I will agree with her statement that laziness in a partner means they don't deserve good sex.

    • Good points, thank you.

What Girls Said 6

  • Yes I think about it from time to time, but don't dwell on it. I've never had a bad penis, had some bad lovers but don't blame the penis it is only working for his owner.

    • Were you more attracted to the larger penis? Did the larger one satisfy you in other ways the the smaller ones didnt? Do you miss being with the larger one? Sory for all the questions, just curious and wanted your take on it.

    • No I wasn't attracted to the larger penis.Yes there defenantely are things a larger penis can do that the smaller one cannot. Mostly is about the girth not the length.I am now with the largest I have ever been with and he does know how to use it

  • Well, most girls do compare, but almost never minds.I mean my ex had a bigger one than my current boyfriend, but srsly I don't mind:PI don't mind at all, it's not the size of the boat but the flow of the ocean.

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  • depends on the girl but I would say for the most part yes. my friends and I talk about things like that with each other all the time and its kind of funny. I think its kind of obvious for girls to want a nicer penis than the one they have now if the guy they were with before had a better one. size plays a huge factor contrary to popular belief. a bigger one (thicker esp.) just feels amazing for most girls. however, technique is superior. you can have a smaller penis and still give a girl amazing sex you just have to work much harder. I have dated women in the past and we can get orgasms from really great oral sex and just a couple fingers so I'm pretty sure that you don't have to have a big penis to get a girl to orgasm.okay sex rant...the problem is though that many (probably most I would bet) men don't know what the heck they are doing down there. its a two way street though in some ways. lazy girls don't deserve good sex. and far too many women fake orgasms and tell guys they are blowing their minds when they arent. I have even been guilty of that a couple times but for the most part I am honest and communicate with the guy/girl I'm sleeping with. communication is really the only way to get better and if girls keep on lying to these men they will walk around oblivious or (even worse) thinking that they really are that great then accusing the next open *honest* girl they sleep with of being abnormal when she tells him that he sucks. I have so many friends and associates who fake orgasms in bed...i think a lot of men would be shocked. then again many of them just don't care so eh maybe they wouldn't be shocked. lol I have known girls who say their bfs just last a couple minutes of blah sex then roll over to sleep knowing that their girlfriend is working her way to orgasm on her own right to next to them in bed with a vibrator. I'm with a girl right now but if that had ever happened to me I would have kicked him on the floor and never slept with him again. meanie! lol

  • "When you ladies move on to a new man, does the thought of a previous lover's penis ever come to mind?"Yes, it does, especially when it's a difference in size. The first penis I saw was quite smaller than average. And after that, everything just seems huge, each and every time! I'm glad that first guy set my standards. Because every guy since kept saying they're small, and I'm like, "WTF, you're huuuuge!" And also the shape of each also comes to mind, but thoughts like that just come and go. I don't make a big deal how different each penis is. Though how the penis curves does make a difference when having sex though..."Have you ever moved to someone who was smaller and wished for the your current lover to be around the size of an ex?"Yes, and let me tell you, he was probably the best than the other guys in the past. IT'S WHAT HE DOES WITH IT THAT COUNTS.

    • Yes, and let me tell you, he was probably the best than the other guys in the past. IT'S WHAT HE DOES WITH IT THAT COUNTS.I'm kinda thrown off by the way you worded this, did this mean yes, the guy was small and you did wish he was he was as large as an ex?

  • Of course we do. Just like you compare your current girlfriend to your ex girlfriends. But you have to keep in mind, it's not always size that makes the difference."It is not the size of the boat - its the motion of the ocean.."Haha!

What Guys Said 7

  • Damn, now see what you did with a question like this...I have a twist in my UnderArmor

  • Oh, hell yes...I ALWAYS DO ! Let me see yours ! Damn, I'm getting an erection right now, just contemplating it !

  • ive been told I have a small penis once. I didn't mind at all cos the girl had had only had two penis's in her life, mine and my mates. my mates d***s is big enough he can wrap it around his wrist when its not hard (no lies). other than than that I've never heard of a girl complaining about penis size.

  • They obviously do...my partners have even told me how mine compares with other men's!

    • Did this bother you, or was it pleasant news?

    • It was pleasant news, but I kind of already knew. I omitted this from my answer to avoid boasting. I doubt most women would compare a man unfavourably to his face...I might be wrong!

  • how could they not?

  • I think it would be impossible not to compare, at least on some level. Even if one denies it. That's just how humans create perspective and context for their experiences in general, by comparing to previous ones.

  • Yes they compare and all her gfs know how big it is if it bends to on side or the other, any other distinguishing features...

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