Scared I might be pregnant after losing virginity?

[misssouthernbelle]

I decided to have sex for the first time with my boyfriend last weekend. I was a couple of days from starting my period, so my mind was more at ease. I'm a bit paranoid about getting pregnant outside of marriage because I'm a teacher in a southern state and I would be the talk of the town. I'm on BC and have been taking it for years, but have been taking it the last two months like clockwork. I skipped one pill in the 3rd day of week 3 this month. I researched and it said that unless I skipped the pill on the first week, it really didn't affect the effectiveness of the pills. On top of BC, we used a condom. I freaked out because when he pulled out after coming, the condom wasn't on him. I reached down and pulled it out. The opening was still hanging out and it came off because he didn't pull out before he went limp. He said the condom never slipped off. I was upset because I was afraid some semen got close to my vaginal opening. However, I was calm because I knew I was on BC and I had already taken my last BC pill for this month and my period was to begin this week. I had some deep cramps and throbbing for two days after we had sex. I was afraid I was pregnant then. However, I was assured by many that that was normal for first times, especially close to a period when the cervix is lower. However, tomorrow is Day 5 of the sugar pills and I've yet to start. I keep checking and there is no sign of a period. I took a pregnancy test today, the day my period usually starts, and it said "Not pregnant." The more time that goes on, I'm starting to get really worried and wish that I would have taken Plan B after all. I'm having slight cramps and I've been bloated today, just no sign of a period despite being on BC. I'm so worried and even thought of taking Plan B because it's shown to still be 87% effective after 72 hours, via scientific study. Any advice, insight, anything? I'm so scared!

[summiter]

I would not worry... just enjoy the great (I hope) sex and great orgasms.

[Anonymous]

We all freak out about that after losing our virginity. Don't stress over it, you're not pregnant and if your period is late it can be bc of the tension

[Wade888]

Do you do troll posts or what?

The other day you were complaining your guy couldn't do anything sexual with you.

[Wade888]

Some time ago I was standing nearby, not really eavesdropping, but people talk more loudly than they should sometimes, and there was this teen mother rationalizing premarital sex and being a teen mother. Obviously she loved her child, but she was also clearly struggling with the burden of responsibility, which is not quite the same as saying she was irresponsible; Quite the opposite. So she says something like, "I wouldn't call it a mistake," and gives like a couple minutes worth of her feelings on the matter, and again concludes with, "I don't think that's a mistake." I was just waiting to see what she was going to do with herself. I agree. That's a deliberate choice, and it's not a mistake to have a child. It's a mistake not to love them though. You probably shouldn't worry about being the "talk of the town" problem. Love is not a piece of paper, and real "marriage" is more than a financial contract. "Life finds a way." Southern-fried Christians have a hard time with that.