I need a dominant guy, how do I know?

It took me a long time to realize that my type of guy is very dominant. I mean sexually, and in day to day life. Something about being bossed around/controlled makes me feel really comfortable/loved. Maybe crazy, but hey we all have our kinks. Either way though, somehow I always end up with the sweet guys who would do anything for me and just want to make me happy. I sound like an idiot I know, what girl WOULDN'T want that guy? Well, this girl clearly doesn't. I'm just really down for the whole "Make me a sandwich, and when I'm done with it I'm going to f*** you the way I want to" scenario. Anyways, I'm trying to figure out how to tell earlier on what kind of guy is that type. Personality traits, gestures, the way they talk, etc. Any clues to help me find a guy who is the way I want without going through the whole dating process to find out. Hope you can help!


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  • What rockchickUK said makes a lot of sense to me. I'm def. the happy medium type. Sexually, I want to be in control nearly all the time. Very rarely do women I'm with want to be in control, but on the rare occasion they do, I'll go with it.

    Non-sexually, I'm a nice guy. I'd probably say, "Could you make me a sandwich? If it's a good sandwich, when I'm done with it, I'm going to give it to you like I want to give it to you." I doubt I'd say, "Get in that kitchen bitch and make me a friggin sandwich NOW! Because I want a girlfriend not a slave. Chances are I can make a better sandwich then you can anyway, so I'm not going to keep you around for sandwiches.

    As far as finding this type of guy you are looking for without the whole dating process? Good luck.