OK so my boyfriend told me he'd like to eat me out, and I've never experienced anything like that before and it makes me nervous lol. I often give him blowjobs, and I'm afraid he just says that because he feels he "owes" me something. I don't want him to feel pressured into anything, whatever...
OK so my boyfriend told me he'd like to eat me out, and I've never experienced anything like that before and it makes me nervous lol. I often give him blowjobs, and I'm afraid he just says that because he feels he "owes" me something. I don't want him to feel pressured into anything, whatever happens I want him to be pleased too.
So guys, do you actually enjoy eating a girl out? If so what do you like about it and if not why? What can I do to make it more pleasurable for him (that is my main concern)?
Girls, is it normal that I feel like it's awkward? Also, I tried to wax down there, but it really hurts, but when I shave, it's not perfectly smooth.. Is there a special razor I should use or something?
Thank you so much for answering, I really want it to be a good experience for him too!
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Girl, my man LOVES to go down on me. In fact, before we were together when I asked him:
"If a girl you were dating would give you head, but didn't want to receive, would that be a problem for you?"
His answer... "Oh NO, that's a problem! I want to eat p*ssy every time I climb into bed with my girl, so we would have to work something out."
The bottom line is it can be a REAL turn on for a man to please his girl. I LOVE going down on my boyfriend because I love the power and the knowledge that when he squirms, its because of me. I actually get off on that. It can be the same for men. So if your boyfriend wants to do this for you... let him. It could be great for both of you.
As far as logistics, I know that waxing is painful, but it really is better for them. I mean, you can just keep it short and neat; I used to do that basically because I was avoiding the pain and hassle of waxing, but they get SOO much more into it when its smooth and frankly, if its done well... a Brazilian wax just feels better and cleaner for YOU.
My advice... go to a professional and let them take it ALL off... most likely your man will love it. Make sure you get reviews of the place, some are better than others.
If you absolutely CANT do the waxing, you can invest in a ladies electric razor. It may not seem like it would do the job but it DOES... it takes a little time on your part and you have to be meticulous... but it does work and it can get you baby smooth... the only issue is it only lasts a few days where waxing can last a few weeks.
I beg for it., I know it enhances her and my experience just as equally. I like to go down on a girl when she just finished washing it because sometimes the taste is a bit too powerful but nothing is like being in control of her orgasm its the best feeling when you see her facial reactions, feel her body tremble with every lick and her moans getting more intense as she's about to climax, its totally awesome =]
This has a similar question that guys ask "Do you swallow". Taste of a guy can vary as can the taste (and smell) of a girl. I have problems at times eating a girl out due to the sometimes mustier smell of a woman during sex. However, if I can past that (which I have learned to do most of the time) it is an enjoyable experience. It isn't the flavor or anything similar that draws me to it. I like to do it for a woman because she enjoys it and it becomes pleasurable for her. Hearing her get off to it turns me on more.
Things you can do to make it pleasurable for him: Moan *IF* you enjoy it (give it a chance though) and if you don't when he is finished let him know. Play with your breasts, squeeze them and pinch the nipples, things that he would do to them. bring a toy (vibrator or something) you or him can hold it to your clit while he eats you making the experience more enjoyable. There is always the 69 position as well. Get on top give him head while he eats you out.
I can actually some of the "girl questions" from a guys perspective as well. It is normal to feel awkward. You haven't had it done before, you aren't sure if you will like it, you aren't sure why he is doing it... I promise though, you will like it if he knows what he is doing, Shaving... this one is difficult. As a guy I shave (a lot of guys that get a little older start to shave). I have found men's razors to be better than womens for this task. A Mach 3 razor has always been my favorite. The first pass should be with shaving cream or gel, whichever you prefer. However, lather yourself up with soap really well and then pass again just with soap. The soap will keep the blade going smooth but will allow you to get much closer to the skin. whatever you do, DO NOT go against the grain T_T the first time I ever shaved resulted in razor burn for aobut a week down there... hurt like hell.
Lay back and enjoy the ride. Just make sure it is clean and April fresh down there especially on the first time if you ever want him to go back for more. I love the taste of p**** in the morning. My girlfriend loves it when I wake her by licking her in that special spot. Licking p**** is great foreplay in my opinion.
As for shaving down there soak that area for a good half hour and then shave it. It will be much smoother and easier to shave.
You may want to get him a coal miners hat so he can see what he is doing down there. Ha just kidding.
There's literally nothing I like to do more with a girl. It's not some obligation thing, it's just an immense turn on to make her rise off the bed and howl.
To help him out, just make sure you start out very clean front and back (if he's doing it right, it'll get really messy down there real fast, but that's one of the hot aspects). Try getting a Brazilian at a spa -- it's not bad at all. But most of all, relax -- if you're getting all weird about it and keep putting him off, it's ruin it; it's really the most natural thing in the world. You give him blowjobs all the time, why wouldn't he do the same? And if you're tense, then you won't enjoy it, and then it's not good for him either, both working away for an hour for no result, and the feeling that he's not good enough to please you. So, to make it a good experience for him, literally just relax, lie back, and enjoy.
My girlfriend uses my mach3's and it works pretty well.
I absolutely like going down on her. My pleasure is not the foremost thing in my mind at all. I really approach it more as one of my favorite games. That said, I love the intimacy, I love the idea of what's happening, and yes I do love the sensation too. Shaved almost guarantees I'll spend some time down there. Shaved translates to "lick me" in my head. It's irresistible. She actually has to talk me out of it from time to time when she wants something else. I like it when she grabs a little hair and pulls in a little bit.
She definitely felt it was awkward at first. She wouldn't let me do it for a long time. In fact she was so shy and tense about it that it got in the way of her having orgasms that way for a long time. I will end with one thought. Your vagina is not something to be ashamed of. Most guys spend a fair amount of time thinking about one. Try to relax and enjoy, that's the whole point of it anyway.
I love - LOVE - eating pussy! I love the smell, I love the taste, I love the texture, I love the wetness. (All of this, of course, assuming the girl has good hygiene.) Now, to be fair, I only eat my wife these days, but I used to love pretty much any p**** a girl would give me. I make it a rule not to quit until my girl literally begs me to stop. Also, the ability to make a girl squirm and moan is great!
I really love doing it for my girl. There's nothing you really need to know I don't think, if he wants to then just let him do it. All you need to do is sit back and enjoy, maybe direct his head a little bit to show him what you like, we appreciate that a lot :)
I love eating a girl out. The smell and taste are a huge turn-on for me and I can easily get a hard on just from the anticipation of going down on my girlfriend. I love doing it do her every time we're together. I think a lot of girls worry that they won't smell or taste good to their boyfriend, but I've honestly loved the smell and taste of every girl I've gone down on. I think as long as you have good hygiene and no health issues (yeast infections, etc.), then he'll enjoy being down there.
Lay back and enjoy it if he wants to do it, it would be rude to refuse him, where are you manners...tsk tsk. he's doing it for you to make you feel good if you enjoy it let him know don't waste time faking it, if he does something you like let him know so he keeps doing it.
I know when my boyfriend gets really horny he wants to go down on me... guys love it, but the less hair the better...dont worry about it being perfectly smooth when your in the moment you don't need to think about things like that, it will spoil it... if he wants to go down on you its because he wants to not because he feels like he owes you... just relax and don't think about it to much... make moaning sounds tho it shows him that you are enjoying it... have fun with it...
get one of those neat electric razors...my favorite is called clio...it's small and works great...and to make it more pleasurable for him: eat healthy...eat fruits, vegetables...none of that processed sh*t...that's what would make someone taste bad...you are what you eat, ya know...so if you want to taste like a pineapple, eat some pineapple...it's always worked for me...plus you feel better
I wouldn't worry about shaving, just clean really well so it's not stanky. there is a normal vag smell but most guys like it. Just trim, clean and it'll be fine. If you relax and enjoy it, he'll love that he's making you happy.
For your first time, yes it's normal to feel awkward, but trust me it is def worth it! And when it comes to shaving with a razor it's not always going to be completely smooth. There's always gonna be little "prickily" as I put it, but that's perfectly fine. At least your trying and not letting it go all jungle like aha. Just lay down and enjoy yourself, it's completely worth it.
My first time I was nervous because I thought will he be disgusted about how I taste so many questions popped up...but don't worry its obvious that enjoys it or he wouldn't have asked you. I think the best razor to use is one that doesent require batteries. You have to spend a little money on razors to get the best quality. Try going to walmat or target they have ones that are water proof. If your gonna shave make sure your skin is clean oils and dirt doesent make a clean shave. Or go to HSN I have that one and it works wonders...
if you shave then use skintimate or some other shaving creaam and it will smooth things out. if you want to make it good for him, make sure you shave right before you see him, and stay away from eating garlic or onions and eat more strawberries and pinapple because what you eat effects how you taste. and don't worry about him feeling like he owes you, because more than likely he WANTS to do this for himself too. my boyfriend LOVES eating me out. I was neverous before it ever happened to me, but once he starts, the awkwardness goes away and you'll want more and more. oh yeah, and make sure you clean yourself before hand also
It's normal to feel that way most girls do but trust me when I say that if he knows what he is doing you will LOVE IT! but keep in mind this is all about pleasuring you, like you giving him a BJ does for him. ( although its a good idea to make him willing to do it again)