Squirting?

Question

I just learned the art of squirting during sex... :D first off, Yay me! This is an amazing skill to get your body used to! :) It makes everything else during the sex ten times enhanced! :DSo, question...I have only been able to squirt while being fingered, either by myself of by my boyfriend...I'm trying to figure out how, or even if it is possible to squirt while his **** is inside me? Like can I do it with him still in there, or does is have to more open than that? my guy thinks it would be really hot and sexy if I could, so I'm trying to do it...and like I can feel when its coming, and I know I "can" but I can't get it to with him still in me? just wondering the technicalities? :Dthanks!

hisangel · Accepted Answer

A woman squirts cause she relaxed enough to do it and she lets the muscles in her pelvic contract kind of making you feel like you are forcing something out. I don't need g spot stimulation to do that. So I can't say that the g-spot is tied to squirting.

With you, it can be tied to it cause it seems that whatever he is hitting when he is fingering you isn't getting hit when he is inside you. You can try having him not thrust as deep. He might not be hitting the parts of your vagina that are causing you to squirt when he thrust deeply.

But I really don't know if that's the issue. Or maybe it is part of the issue but I don't know if it's the whole issue. My guess is that you are in a different mindset when he is fingering you. Fingering can be more relaxing then sex. You are being stroked and touched and a woman's body really responds to that. Not just gentile stimulation but the stroking of it. And that's one of the reasons it can be easier to orgasm (and squirt) when he is fingering you. When someone is pumping and grinding on you, it does put you in a different mood then when someone is just fingering you. If it was me, I would try relaxing more in sex. When you tense you are more likely to not have an orgasm and then not squirt. You know how they say to breath in things like yoga? You have to do the same thing in sex. You need to relax and focus on your pleasure. Sometimes having him slow down can help you get more focused. Women get too distracted in sex. Men can orgasm cause they are so, so focused on what they are doing but women are looking at the dust bunnies on the shelves. If you can focus on just what you are feeling, I think that will help a great deal. Try to feel as relaxed in sex as you do when he is just fingering you.

Also you can ask him to touch all of you during sex or any other things that would help you relax.

miamor · Accepted Answer

I am able to squirt with my guys penis inside of me. I have to be very relaxed. I breath very heavy, which helps alot. As well as he goes in and out of me very slowly. I don't really think about anything, just about how it feels really good and that I am going to orgasm. Then before I know it, I've squirted. So ya, it's definitely possible to squirt with the guys penis inside of you. My guy and I have sex with him on top of me, with my legs raised. That way, I can relax easier. Make sure you're laying on something soft and comfortable like a bed. Good Luck! I hope this helps! =)

Petite-and-sexy · Accepted Answer

I can squirt most of the time. The two positions that work best for me are... Me on the couch and him kneeling in front of me doing it missionary style and a pillow under my but. If his penis is lower then your vagina it will penetrate at a upward angle and that is the key. The other is me on top of him and we are grinding against each other. If u keep his penis about half way inside you and you kinda lean back as you are doing it. This one is great for clitoral and g spot stimulation. The key is upward penetration. Hope this helps it works for me.

PimpinAintEasySD · Accepted Answer

I have done this for girls before. Usually it's quite difficult for a girl to squirt with a guy in you. My advice is while you're having sex and you feel the squirting is almost there, have him pull out really quick and use your hands. As soon as you start to come have him get back in you and f*** you as hard as he can! Know that the feeling of this is going to be VERY intense for you. It may even be too much. Like when a guy goes too hard on you with his tongue after you come during oral. Usually you'll want to just lay back and enjoy the mind blowing orgasm and "shakes" that follow your squirting.

I have done this before for girls and in fact teach guys this technique along with how to become an oral sex master. So I have knowledge on this subject. I usually know more about the female anatomy and how to get a girl off than girls themselves know... Lol... If you have any more questions feel free to ask or message me! Enjoy squirting! :)

Marfan · Accepted Answer

It's pretty darn hard for a girl to squirt while being f***ed - though it is possible. I think what might work best is for him to take you to the edge with his cock, pull out, and then, when you start to squirt start f***ing you again. Otherwise, you guys just need to practice so that you can get the timing down.

I hope I've helped! Good luck!

saphirasilverwings · Answer

I have never had sex, but I have read that it is possible to squirt during that.

AllAboutTheX · Answer

You will want him to  A. be long enough to reach the g-spot inside you with his member. B. Position himself so that while penetrating you the head of his member is hitting your front internal wall.

lelebear · Answer

I first learned with fingering too.  I do squirt when he is  in me but it is usually when I am on top.  It hits the g-spot better in that position for me.  Also the more I have squirt during foreplay the  more likely I am to squirt during sex.

katiesmuff · Answer

Yes indeed you can do it with him stll in you.  When you are fingering yourself or your boyfriend is doing it you are hitting the g spot.  This is where you would also want the friction from the penis to be.  I find doggie the easist because I have better control as where he is aiming his monster and it is easy for him or me to reach and stimulate my clit.  I've had gushers with the penis in me so yes it works and most guys think it is hot.

Hyped_up_on_coffee · Answer

Well you squirt through your urethra wich technically isn't in the vagina, so probably yes, it just sounds hard.

FantasticPlanet · Answer

Typically, you can't squirt with him in you, but as soon as he pulls out.  It's more a matter of whether or not he can hit the right spot with his c**k that will get your ready to squirt.