Does he think I'm easy?

[haley78]

OK, here’s a personal one. I’ve hung out with this guy a few times – and I get on really well with him. The second time we hung out we ventured into town and he wasn’t afraid to show public displays of affection, such as holding my hand and kissing me. Then we hung out at his, and one thing led to the other and I ended up sleeping with him. Now, this guy is very laid-back – and that’s what I like about him, but I’m worried he would think I was too easy. The times I met up with him weren’t necessarily dates … we both like to keep things casual but the public displays of affection made me wonder … And after I slept with him, I had to go home and he told me text him when I get in which I found sweet & he text back soon after, saying he had had a fun day …. But aside from all this, was it too soon? Would he lose interest now he’s slept with me?

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

Only idiots will lose interest that quickly. I should also tell you that most guys won't think you're easy just because you had sex with him right away. Any guy with a brain in his head and a little bit of experience knows that sex doesn't necessarily change the relationship dynamic. So he might just think you really liked him. Which I'm betting you do. You said it yourself that he's sweet. Just try not to worry about it. Keep doing things the way you've been doing things and see if you can get a relationship out of it later on if you want to.

You sound like a really sweet girl. You're probably nice, and I'm betting a little cute too. So I say just let him realize that too. He probably already does. Not all men are pigs. You'll see how this will pan out, and until you know, there is no sense in worrying too much about it. Not to say you shouldn't put any effort in, but you don't have to force the issue either.

He may just come back to you later. If things don't work out, trust me when I tell you that there will be other guys. The pain will fade, and you'll be OK. Somebody will be there to make you happy one day. You just gotta keep at it.

Good luck with this.

[Reginelli]

He sounds like a cool guy. Its no certain time to wait. Sometimes people just click real fast. He shouldnt lose interest that quick if he really likes you. So if you are feeling him too just go along with it and don't worry about it.

[Anonymous]

I boned my ex girlfriend on our first date. We were together 4 years. Don't worry about it!

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

I had sex with my best friend, before we even dated, and we have been together now 3 years as of yesterday.