If I take my own virginity will a guy still see me as a virgin or wouldn't know?

Question

I'm planning on taking my own virginity with a vibrator etc, would a guy still think I'm a virgin or he wouldn't be able to tell?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

1. you will be a virgin until you have SEX, masturbating with penetration or not doesn't count
2. the general thing is a girl has a hymen until she has a sex and that's the way to tell BUT and i strongly make sure you know this. a hymen CAN break doing other things, so even it is broken you would still be a virgin.
3. he probably won't be able to tell

bente2 · Accepted Answer

That doesn't count as taking your virginity. Do you people even get sex ed? Virginity is a social concept anyways, and it doesn't change anything about your body. It doesn't make you 'loose' either.

Kaylyne · Accepted Answer

Sorry to disappoint you, for you'll still be a virgin. To be quite truthful, I would have seriously thought that someone of your age would have known this anyway.

XRabbitHeartX · Accepted Answer

You cannot take your own virginity. It doesn't work like that.

ThisDudeHere · Accepted Answer

You'll still be virgin tho. Losing virginity involves having sex. And before you say that the hymen has to be broken in order for you to lose your status then you're probably unaware that it's possible to break it through workout or any other means.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Personally, I would still consider her a virgin, and I'd be willing to date her, but it would bother me that she uses sex toys.

If (and only if) she stopped using sex toys once we became sexually active, I'd be ok with it.

cpzpbx3 · Answer

You aren't serious, right?

Rocket_Queen · Answer

You are still a virgin. Vibrator or not.

Chaos_Theorum · Answer

Honestly most guys wouldn't care wither way and if he does that's probably a red sign.

Soteris · Answer

Virginity is a subjective term in this day and age. I for one would not consider that to be losing your virginity until you have sex with another man or possibly a woman. At most id call it breaking the hymen which is something completely different.

summiter · Answer

He will never know unless you tell him...

Dargil · Answer

Virginity ends with intercourse. A hymen can stretch, tear or wear away for many other reasons.

goaded · Answer

You don't have to hurt yourself, just do what feels good and maybe stretch things a little each time.

AnonRom · Answer

You don't take a virginity... Like its not a physical or even real thing everyone has their own definition for it so the word itself has no meaning. If you mean breaking your hymen well you won't that isn't how that works. Most guys will find it hot that you masturbate if anything.