What is an appropriate age to start sexual activities?

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What's the right age to do before sex things aka hand blow fingering?

TheAnswerer · Accepted Answer

Well, you probably know that there is no "appropriate age" or something, and that everyone starts at a different age, so I'm not going to repeat those. (Oops, I already did, right?)

If you are talking about fingering yourself, well, I'd say that 12+ is a good age.

If you are talking about doing this with a partner (which I guess from handjob and blowjob examples you gave), well, I'd say 16+ is a good age.

But of course, as I said above, it is different for everyone.

sa230e · Accepted Answer

If you're not ready then don't sweat it. Don't feel like you have to. When it's time for you, then that's the appropriate age. Just make sure to be safe about it.

NothingLastsForever · Accepted Answer

There isn't a guide line that says 'Finger yourself at 13.' etc.

You do things when you feel ready to do them. Do not let yourself be pressured into anything and I'd make sure you do it with the right person who you really do have strong feelings for because you can only lose your 'fingering virginity', 'oral virginity', 'handjob virginity' and regular 'virginity' once and there is no way to take it back if you've been used.

katiesmuff · Accepted Answer

I don't know how you would put an age to this, but not until you are old enough to fully realize all the things that can happen having sex and mostly not before you feel that you really want to start it, without any peer pressure

crrazaylove · Accepted Answer

When you feel like your ready to do it. Otherwise I wouldn't worry about it. I started young like 14-ish yeah wish I waited..

Longshot · Answer

No particular age. No rush. Don't be pressured.  When you're ready you'll know it because it will feel right.  If you are unsure or uncomfortable with it, wait.

MrWizard · Answer

I'm not popular for it, but I say you start on the night you get married.

thehand0 · Answer

When you are mature enough to handle it, both the good and the bad.

maye8384 · Answer

There shouldn't be an actual age, it should be when you're ready... but most people seem to start at around 16.

bayjell65432 · Answer

my purely honest and blunt opinion on this...i am 19, and I'm engaged, and I want to be parent very much, so with that in mind, I say nothing under 16 atleast, prefer 17 tho