I believe their is a number that really have a hard time for biological reasons. But I"m certain many of these cases where women say they don't orgasm *from penetrative sex* is because they don't take responsibility for their own pleasure.
It absolutely floors me that you can get yourself off, but you can't get yourself off when you're with someone you love and are attracted to. I heard of a guy that as an experiment decide to only orgasm when women got him off and not doing it himself. He didn't cum the entire time he was trying this. You should know what you like to experience, physically, mentally, emotionally and you should be able to use this to cum. I just don't understand how it wouldn't work. You can get yourself off on your own; you should be able to get off laying on your partners chest; you should be able to get off laying on your partners chest with dick inside you; you should be able to get yourself off while moving with a dick inside you. It all follows and doesn't sound far fetched to me.
No offense ladies, but you get how ridiculous is sounds to get off better *without* your partner? My conclusion has to be that you're off-loading responsibility for your pleasure to the guy and just expecting him to make it happen for you on his own.
I want to make a distinction between WILL and can't. There are many women who for one reason or another do not reach orgasms. It is not because they can't but because of other circumstances like neglect or whatever.
That said there are also some women who basically can't. There are some medical procedures that can directly trigger it though but basically otherwise their body can't but this is fairly rare. I also do not really recommend those procedures since last I checked it meant messing around in the spine to trigger nerves manually.
fortunately, i have never had a problem with this. however, for those who have a hard time (pun intended), here's why:
1) getting off requires an understanding of one's body that many women are not encouraged to gain. we are taught that it's unladylike, that sex isn't something a woman shouldn't actively enjoy, and that having it regularly makes you a slut.
2) the clitoris (primary locale of female sexual pleasure) is at a distinct distance from the vagina (primary locale of sexual intercourse); sure, penetration feels good, but that's not always enough to get the job done.
3) the female orgasm is positioned as a myth, something that no mortal man should ever be expected to master. therefore, most don't put in the effort~ why would they, if they think it's impossible?
4) speaking of men, you'd be amazed how many i've met who think that all women are the same. look, just because something worked on your ex doesn't mean that it will work on every other woman you sleep with... so don't act surprised if i don't lose my shit every time you stick your dick in me. one size does not fit all, literally or figuratively lol.
i'm sure others will add to this, but that's all i can think of for now.
The mindset and compatability with their partner...
2 people have to click emotionally and physically for it to happen.. someday minds are tense and they tense up not relaxing enough to reach the goal..
The best time to reach orgasm is when your ovulating that's about week and a half after a period for most women on a regular cycle... they are at their horniest and the guards are let down..
So for guys there's a little heads up to get the juices flowing if it isn't happening then your lady's just not feeling it
That time frame lines up pretty much perfect in my life lol!
@shawnski Just be careful though as u don't want a little screaming bundle of joy 9 months down the line lol But that is when women are at their horniest though it's body's way of saying get pregnant...
Thanks for the buzz kill!! Lol jk I watch my ass on that one for sure!!
I guess it's true. Maybe they don't ask for what they want and need in bed. If you let the guy do all the work, how is he supposed to know everything? You can at least direct him, but I think lots of women really like being submissive.
Well I think you would have to define "many" but yes, some women just can't reach orgasm. It has nothing to do with penis size or a man's skills in the bedroom. For some it's just impossible. Horrible, isn't it? 😔
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I can , if I'm pleasuring myself. If I'm having sex though, It will take awhile and he has to ve patient. Sometimes I don't get to orgasm though.
That's what the internet says, but it has not been my experience at all. I wouldn't too much stock into what internet girls/guys say, they are very different from real girls/guys.
I believe it to be true at least for me... I mean if I'm pleasing myself it's all the time but through sex it happens rarely
Lack of communication.
Attempting to copy porn.
Not enough foreplay.
Penis size (yeah I said it, hit that down button, you know you want to, do it)
Yup some girls will never have orgasms, sad really.
They usually don't have the right sexual partner.
Some women can't orgasm, lots of woman could orgasm but think it should be like porn where the man enters her and "poof" she orgasms, and that if this doesn't happen the man must be bad in bed or that she's incapable of having orgasms. If a woman can orgasm through masturbation then she can orgasm during sex, it's just that for a lot of women this means she needs clitoral stimulation from herself or her partner.
Sure. 75% don't from intercourse alone and some don't by any means. Not essential for reproduction as it is in men.
I just want to say that as a man, not being able to please your partner would be pretty humiliating and honestly, I wouldn't want to be with a woman if I just couldn't please her. It would be too embarrassing. I'd kill myself before I put up with that.
Some woman can orgasm on toutch and Some need a lot of stimulation
Some dont have an orgasm because of stress or wories that they have
But mostlyits the Guy's who dont put in enouch effort they need to know their girl inside out for the fore play and after that just do what you want its a big turn on when you are dominant so enjoy iT 😜
There will always be a small minority of both genders who can't orgasm for physical reasons. There is also a bigger minority who find it difficult to orgasm for psychological and emotional reasons, from the information out there it seems like more of these are women.
My thoughts if you can orgasm and are content with this, continue your normal sex life. For anything else, don't be afraid to say so, do things like explore things with your SO or even seek counselling or medical advice. In the vast majority of people the orgasm is there, it may be lot buried a lot deeper for some people.
Well it's says in a study that 75% of women don't reach orgasam so ya tell me
Is this really true? That means the women having orgasms are in a minority. Any reasons apart from natural causes?
Absolutely true. Some of them just fake it. But they don't have to worry. Many men don't like to see when women orgasm. There are also some men who don't mind if women don't orgasm. But some women who don't get orgasm or those who get it rarely do feel that they need to get the pleasure that is associated with getting orgasms. Sometimes medical help can be availed. Nobody is perfect , so women need to be happy with the existing situation.
Are you serious? Don't ever go near any woman, ever. Disgusting.
I only orgasm from masturbation. Never once from sex.
Its more the guys are selfish picks who don't know how to have sex and some women don't wanna shatter his ego so they tell them it's good when it wasn't.
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It's very common, some women never have one or have their first very late in life.
Depends on whether you mean vaginal or clitoral orgasms. From a scientific point of view, there is some evidence that the distance between the nerve bundle to which the clitoris is attached from the opening to the vagina is a prime indicator of whether or not a woman has frequent (or any) vaginal orgasms. Those same women may have no problem reaching an orgasm through stimulation of the clitoris.
You should make a guest appearance on the sitcom "Big Bang Theory"... The audience would love this!!!
Many women can't reach orgasm without direct clitoral stimulation.
Uh ya.
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