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How do I know if I have good pussy?

Everyone is making a big deal out of a woman having good pussy, nowadays. It's like it determines the quality of her self value. Is she worthy to fall head over heels for depending on the quality of her pussy?

I'm 26 years old and I've only had two sex partners (an ex and a current boyfriend). I've never been told the status of my pussy. So, I don't know if it's good or bad. I know this may seem like a silly question to some but sometimes I wonder if I give good sexual pleasure...

Would a man hold it in if he knows I have good pussy? ... Just so that he can make me feel devalued as if he's the only man that'll love me? Or because he doesn't want it to get to my head?

A couple of days ago, I had trouble making my man cum. I tried different ways to please him but he would not cum and I felt like I was trying forever until I felt discouraged and left him to please himself.

I'm so confused... I'm not sure if what I have, "down there" is worthy...
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  • I think like 95% of pussy is good pussy lol. I have had bad experiences though. One time when I was a teenager, I had sex with this girl a couple times, and both times I could not feel anything whatsoever! She was just... loose as hell lol.

    The second bad experience I had was a bit strange to me. She was a tiny petite blonde girl. I literally could not fit my entire dick inside of her. Now on every other woman I've been with, if I push my dick as far as it can go, hard and deep, they usually can't handle that and it hurts! But that's ok, I don't need to grind my pelvis into them to get every cm of dick inside. But this girl? I got maybe 6 inches in and boom, it was like I hit a wall. And it didn't hurt her at all. But my dick was hurting because her vagina was super tight! LIke the muscles inside were so tight that I felt like I was fucking a plastic bottle. Needless to say I didn't cum.
    Mostly though, good pussy means you know how to have sex, not the actual composition of your pussy. Explore sex, try new things and have fun and you'll develop good pussy.

    • .. nobody could handle it, huh? 🥴🥴🤤

  • Aw, no. Don't do this to yourself!

    There are plenty of reasons why a guy might not reach orgasm. Stress, sleepiness, being drunk, prescription drugs, illicit drugs, depression, too much mastubation, and those are just off the top of my head. None of this has anything to do with you.

    Please rest easy. Even when people talk about "tight" and "loose" vaginas, it's totally subjective and more dependent on the woman's natural wetness than the shape or size of her insides. Really wet means less friction, which means it takes longer for him. And most guys would tell you they *like* wetness because it means the woman is turned on. Read this question if you don't believe me: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2125211-i-feel-like-i-get-too-wet-guys-how-would-you-feel-about-this

    This idea of being "worthy" is truly silly, so stop that right now! :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • The amount of sex partners really won't determine how "good" physically your vagina is, because the vagina is capable of contracting and thus even after child birth and healing some women end up even tighter than they were in the first place. So to answer your question really, its up to your partner to decide, it kind of bugs me that women are so insecure about how to please a man with their vagina afraid of it not being good enough, yes sex is desired and wanted by most but if it feels good then you're okay, its not like you're going to go and get it tightened just because a guy says so. It can be discouraging when your partner hasn't cummed yet but its also a mental thing, just ask what you can do better, not everyone cums all the time.

  • First of, who is this "everyone" that is making a big deal out of having a good pussy? Smh.
    That's not a thing.
    Don't take it personally if you can't make a guy cum. It can be many variables few of which involve you or your lady parts. Did you use your hand or mouth as well?
    Do you do kegal excercises?

    • Yes I did all of it. And by everyone i mean society. It seems to be a big thing now unless I'm just over thinking it

    • Yeah you are either overthinking it or listening to ignorant pigs. If you know how to use your muscles on a guys d that will drive him wild. If my guy can't finish sometimes, (from doggie) I'll reach down and touch or hold his balls. 😜 That works every time lol.

    • Haha I gotta try that lolz. I never thought of it as, "using my muscles." I'm really amped to try again tonight. Thanks for the confidence boost!

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  • Why do you even care if what you have down there is 'worthy of' or 'valuable' in the eyes of a bunch of idiots who you're already fully aware of as seeing you as not much more than a good or bad pussy to fuck?

  • You would have to have a veryy bad pussy for it to not be a good pussy. I think the people making most of this shit up is other girls and we're blaming it on guys

    • That's an interesting perspective. Thank you!

    • Likely true.

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  • It's not your pussy that has a serious issue, it's your self esteem that has. Sorry, except from some knowledge as to 'use' your own 'sexual equipment' and be creative with sex there is NOTHING that justifies your worries. If he's not happy with your physical appearance he can walk away from the relation if that's so important to him. It's not like you can walk back to the store and get a new one.

  • vagina is vagina for the most part. it is made of the same tissue, excretes the same fluids, so it's going to feel for the most part the same

    the idea of "good pussy" i think has to do more with a person's ability and sexual performance

    • Wow gotcha. So I need to practice the moves maybe haha. Thanks

    • not necessarily. i mean the fact that you've only had two sexual partners doesn't reflect on your sexual prowess. i mean it could but there are tons of other factors that could play into it. and the fact that no one has ever said "you have good pussy" doesn't necessarily mean that you don't. I've had 6 partners and i've never said those words to any partner because to me it is crass and kind of dumb to say

  • Disease free pussy is good pussy.

  • I figure as long as you are making him cum your doing something right lol

  • For the record, the male orgasm is a poor indicator of whether a girl is hot. Not to be crude, but sometimes you barely stick it in and you cum right away, every now and again you'll have a session where you screw and screw and do all these other things and you just don't cum. If we get an erection, we're attracted to you. If we can't cum, it's probably something besides you, and it might not be anything, just a trick of random chance. It's rare, but not unheard of, something that just happens. Never when you need it to though, that's the rule.

  • Got to a doctor and get checked. by the way your value ain't determined by another man.

  • That’s unusual I’ve never had pussy that don’t make me cum mayby he’s on something or mastubates and doesn’t tell you and that’s why he can’t cum no such thing as bad pussy up it’s not you

  • No one can say you that u have good pussy or not except ur boyfriend and there is nothing like good quality and bad quality in pussy and don't feel bad if u couldn't make ur man cum there is many reason that he didn't cut and believe me u wasn't one of them so don't worry and enjoy ur sex life

  • If you can make him cum consistently its good. If not, then, well, um... maybe you can make up for it with your personality or by baking him cookies?

  • You would have to have a very bad pussy for it to NOT to be good. Does your boy eat you out? Does he love fucking you? If yes you got a good pussy and stop worrying about it.

  • I don't really know what you're talking about either

  • Unless it looks like a murder scene, smells like a rotting body, tastes like a sewer, and feels like sandpaper, dry as the sahara, hard like a rock, and rough, which would make it bad pussy, other than that you at least have average pussy. Good pussy would be if it looks prettier than a flower, smells better than perfume, taste better than steak, wet like the ocean, soft like a down pillow, smooth as silk, would make it good pussy. As far as why you can't make him cum it could be that he jerked off earlier or something. As far as the value of it, he probably didn't tell you because it is average to him or because if someone is selling a car for cheap and you tell them it is worth 10 times more they suddenly ask for 10 times more. You shouldn't be looking for a reason to constantly up the cost for him because as your partner you already seen him as worthy of it and that should be where you leave it. If you want to make it unattainable for everyone including him then just never let anyone experience it except you.

  • Poor women. Look if you are loving, and gentle, and sweet. If you want deep intimacy and relationship, then to me your pussy is heavenly and so are you.

  • A pussy is a pussy. Doesn't matter how it looks.

  • Well . what is the shape and the colour of your pussy?

    Does it get wet when you are horny?

    Is it tight or loose?

  • I've never seen a pussy I didn't like

  • 1) it’s not hairy
    2) it’s not stinky

    You can’t control other things so just control those 2

  • Bend over let's find out lmao. Im sure you have a snapping pussy. Tight as a tulip. Probably smells good to.

  • I will give eat 5he eating test if you want

  • The real good pussy is so much responsive, you can feel with every single stroke, it sync well with dick. it produce lubes and felt so good on dick, if your pussy have that than its fine. other things and small incident not matter. if he can't cum it may be fault of dick rather than pussy.

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