If you could, would you decrease the male sex drive?

I think there are some benefits to the male libido
yes I wish I could make it nonexistent
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yes I wish I could make it mild
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yes I wish I could make it more practical
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no I wouldn't
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Id make it even greater if I could
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I should've added options "I wish I could make it more monogamous" and "I wish I could make it more pointed only towards romantic partners"
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  • Girl. Friend. Fuck. No.

    Fuuuuuuucccckk no.

    On the other hand... Would I maybe decrease the SCOPE of the male sex drive, and make it more DIRECTED?
    Like... so that *all* that beautifully slavishly devoted aggression would all become directed at just ONE woman?
    Oh yeah... oh yeah I would. #fuckyeah

    There's NOTHING like... **that** look, that a man gives you, when he's lusting only after YOU. Like other women don't even exist -- and like the entire male sex drive (not just his) was created just so that YOU can enjoy it. (And manipulate it, too, if that's yr thing... hahaha)

    Being able to make THAT into the default... would be pretty damn awesome.

    __

    ... But maybe I wouldn't even do that. Because, even after all these years, I put TONS of effort into keeping my husband's sexual attention fixated on ME (... as he does for me, too). Not gna lie, that's a huge motivator, in life in general.
    And, putting in that effort is addictive, and intoxicating, and FUN. And it makes our marriage better every single year.

    For everyone else, though? Oh yeah. A SINGULARLY DIRECTED male sex drive -- as long as it's directed toward a woman who actually *wants* him! -- would make this world a much better world indeed. Mmhmm bby.

    • What does "more practical" mean, by the way? I didn't understand that poll option...

    • women's sex drive is not only directed at one man too you know. but to be honest, in a relationship i dont even watch porn because it feels like cheating to me, i dont even look at other women either. it would be great for her i guess, but it would only be great for the man if his woman can deal with his sex drive.

    • @anonman32 "women's sex drive is not only directed at one man too you know"
      ^^ Did I ever say it was?
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      LOL
      Since we're talking about an imaginary fantasy world anyway, may as well engineer it to fit our own agenda, no?

      __

      "it would be great for her i guess, but it would only be great for the man if his woman can deal with his sex drive"

      ^^ You think a sexually obsessed man can OUTLAST a sexually obsessed woman?
      hehe...
      um.

      ... yeah, you keep thinking that.

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  • I'd only wish it was more practical. It's so annoying being like "Arhhh! I have the worst migraine."

    And having your dude be like, "There, there I'm sorry you feel like death today. Here are some compassionate cuddles, my sweet love."

    (Dude gets boner from cuddles)

    "Suck my dick, you teasing bitch!!! I don't care about your stupid headache. If I don't cum RIGHT NOW, I might rip your whole head off."

  • No, of course wouldn't decrease it. Granted that the guy is aware that his libido is not an acceptable excuse to try and justify particular behaviours or transgressions of other people's safety, of course.

Most Helpful Guys

  • The happiest I've been on a personal level in a relationship was when both of us had a high and synchronized drive. As well as being enjoyable, it was an amazing glue that made us close.

    Low and synchronized is worse.

    Out of synch is much worse.

    So in my case, lower is better because my partner's is zero, but if my partners were higher, i'd rather have more, not less.

    The sad truth is as well, without a sex drive, I would never have formed a family. My kids were certainly planned, but I didn't seek someone to have kids with, I wanted a partner, and then we wanted kids. And they've been a big joy in my life.

    I think if men had no sex drive, 10% of them would try to get money, and 90% would play video games all day.

    • The percentage who would just go out and cause random mayhem and destruction is certainly not 0 percent.

  • If it wasn't for the male sex drive we wouldn't be here having this discussion. For the 200,000 year history of modern man, procreation could not have taken place without male sex drive. Female sexual arousal is nice, but it's not necessary for procreation. But without make sexual arousal -- which causes a certain physical manifestation if you know what I am referring to -- there would be no human race today. So don't wish away the human race by wishing away male sex drive. Our future depends on it!

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  • Hell no lol. Its perfect the way it is, no need to change things.

  • Helllll noooooooo!

    Stay horny my friends.

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  • Having a higher sexdrive than my boyfriend, I'd make it greater.

  • Lol no way!

    • Good!😝😛

    • @Toad-1 😬😁👍🏽👊🏽

  • I dont really think there is a problem with it but I really want an "on/off" switch.

  • No lmao. Why would I?

  • Lol, all the guys voting for no change, or even to increase it xD
    This question backfired on you :p

    • baha the female votes even more so! LOL

    • @redeyemindtricks ohh, it's increasing now

  • Don't worry. Aging with decrease it anyway and then you women will miss it.

    • This is true!

  • Why would you want to screw with someone else's body?

  • Nope. Though not all men have the same libido.

  • Shit, if current drug sales are any indication, the male libido needs to be increased -- not decreased.

    • Which drugs? You're not thinking of pde5 inhibitors -- Viagra, Cialis, Levitra -- are you? Because those have nothing AT ALL to do with libido. (In fact, those are prescribed when a guy's erections can't keep UP with his libido)

    • oops, this was a very poorly-worded sentence. I was referring to all those SSRI's floating around. :)

    • Oh, yeah. SSRI's are pretty much pure shit anyway, but their interaction with male sexual performance is especially insidious.

  • What do you mean by "more practical?"

    • What do you expect from feminists? 😂

  • So like, I don't believe that poll at all.

  • I would like to control it more, cause most of the time i don't want it.

  • there are a lot of benefits to the male libido, if you control it ;) My girlfriend is in charge when I get to orgasm, so she is in total control over my Libido. She can basictly tell me how horny I have to be haha and she likes me to have a biiig libido

  • yeah I wish I could get rid of it, it's too distracting, I can't get shit done

  • no way

  • Yeah i would tone it down a couple notches

    • why?

  • No I wouldn't.

  • "I'd make it even greater" LOL

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