How do I let my boyfriend see me naked without feeling weird??

OK so my boyfriend constantly tells me he like my body and the way I look naked...but I hate the way I look naked! I just see all the things I want to fix! It's so bad that I won't let him see me naked...and it bugs him. How do I let loose and let him see me? i am not fat. I am 5'9 and 128 pounds...
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  • Don't see yourself as what needs to be fixed, but as what you are; Perfect for right here, right now.

    He probably thinks the world of you, and you even say he likes your body. If HE can love it, an outside source who has every opportunity to judge, why can't you? Don't focus on the things you don't like, focus on the things you DO like about yourself. Go on, think of things in your head right now; 5 things you like about yourself, looking in the mirror. Go. I'll wait.

    Did you really think of 5 things you liked about yourself? Either way, it helps your image and self-confidence if you focus on the things you DO like about yourself.

    As for letting loose, you just need to be comfortable; Comfortable with your body, with your bf, and with you two being together in an unclothed situation. Getting comfortable with yourself and him seeing naked stems from being happy and satisfied with your body, and not thinking about what's wrong, but appreciating what's right. It may also help to be thoroughly aroused and then just let things take their natural course. Don't think "Oh, will he think I'm attractive?" because he already says he loves your body, just be there and appreciate him.

  • You should be comfortable with him and yourself before you do this. it's a big deal, don't take it lightly. It's not so important you show him right away, as much as you should share this experience with him when you are both ready. talk to him about it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • 90% of people would feel uncomfortable showing themselves naked. The trick to becoming more comfortable being naked with your boyfriend is doing it in stages. Try some dim lighting at first (like candles), that way its still dark enough so you don't feel totally naked. Next try taking a shower together with the lights on .. it sounds scary but usually the shower curtain blocks some of the light, plus half the time your eyes are closed or you'll be covered in soap. By the time you are more comfortable with these, you'll at least be more comfortable with him seeing you naked.

    And just remember ... guys don't zone in on your flaws when they undress you. Usually they are too excited to look at anything other than the good stuff.

  • well, I know the first time this happened too me, I had all the lights off and me and the guy were under the covers I told him I was super insecure about the way I looked and so he turned the lights off, it was night and got under the covers and then like close ur eyes or something and let him get under the covers with (naked [ull both b naked]) and tell him he can look but you don't wanna look at yourself naked, at least not at the same time, and you have trust him to not judge or anything, I hope this works, try it

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  • I've heard that it gets easier if you walk around naked when no one's around. Like if you're in your room by yourself, just be naked. If you get used to being naked by yourself, it won't feel so weird when your boyfriend is looking.