Honestly, if you respected your mother's wishes and feelings so much then you shouldn't have been having sex while still living under her roof, knowing you would cause massive disappointment, and being fully aware that you're in no position to financially support yourself. Sure, you're an adult but if you don't have a certain type of relationship with a man, a certain level of financial stability, a certain level of education, and a certain type of job then it's best to just keep your legs closed instead of risk getting pregnant.
0 0 0 0Def. have your boyfriend be there with you. At this point, both have to take responsibility. Moms will always have their opinions, at the end most want to help and be supportive. Hope she is that type,
Parents often times see us as chikdren even when we are adults. We have to prove to them we are responsible. Have a plan with your boyfriend. Work, school, or both and how to raise a child together.0 0 0 0Something smells fishy here... why does your post say under 18 then?
Just tell her - no matter what the situation is - prepare her that it's something serious... And don't lie!0 0 0 0
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The fact that you are scared to tell her and afraid if getting kicked out of mom's house strongly suggests that you are not ready for adult responsibilities. Have you considered placing the baby for adoption?
0 0 0 0You do have to realize that even if I was out of the house living by myself, if I wasn't married I'd be afraid to tell my mom. Hell, when I get a tattoo she probably won't find out for years, or I'll get my ass whooped.
@FallOutBoy2001 I know what it is like to be a child. That is why I made this comment.
Some parents are terrifying into adulthood
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3 1Well, I think it is a good idea to have him there with you. You will need to do this sooner or later.
1 0 0 0I was 16 when I got preggers and was so scared to tell my parents. Not because I was afraid they would kick me out but that I would disappoint them. Good idea to have boyfriend/friend there for support.
0 0 0 0Tell her yourself. It's the best way for her to know, trust me. Next time, just be more careful when having sex.
1 0 0 0Why can't we edit our questions? Anyway, didn't read that last part. I think it's good that he'll be there with you
hun enjoy your child its fun
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