Men & Women: Bondage/Teasing Tips?

[beckysue]

I'm pretty comfortable in my sexuality, but sometimes when I tie him up I feel bored and dumb, cause I'm performing and he's unable to interact. I guess I need tips to keep myself occupied so I can tease him a little longer, because lets face it, what's the point of restraining him if I can't hold myself off long enough to tease him? Men, what are some of your fetishes? Likes? Fantasies? Women, what have you done that you got a good response from?

[Anonymous]

To draw an uncertain parallel, I think the dominant person in a bondage situation can have a similar mindset to someone doing a roleplay. Both people can, or need to, act outside their normal personalities. It's a change in mindset, you just imagine a person or persona and what that kind of person would be doing here. A possessive-slightly sadistic-dominatrix might fit well; knowing he is yours and he is at your mercy. It's just about the mindgames you play, that's why most of the things are done in the bedroom; You're not tying his wrists because it provides physical stimulation, but because it restricts some of his authority, thus making you the one calling the shots, and that can be a turn-on.

If you'd like some more help with the mental stuff or anything, just let me know.

[beckysue]

For sure! Message me, you answered anonymously so I can't msg you.

[PaulAmbrose100]

Try role plays

[AnonymousOne1]

Hey There, I'm about to engage in a similar adventure and would be very interested in hearing about some of the mind f***s you consider hot that I should consider putting to good use ;)

[Anonymous]

My fetishes? Short skirts, leggings/stockings..

I want a woman to masturbate me from behind.. i.e. milke me like a cow. Sounds to erotic just thinking about it. I also want a prostate massage!

[ShyTease]

My boyfriend loves when I scratch him and brush my lips against his but won't kiss him or let him touch me.one day I tied his arms above his head kissed the air RIGHT in front if his lips and at the same time scratched his chest when he responded possitively I did it again.then put a twist on it that I thought might make me more illusive.Make him feel like ur just within his reach then pull away right before he can have u.don't give in!(:

It's all in ur head(: