I'm a bit confused. The other night my ex came over late. I didn't know why she showed up. She's a very strong girl, softball player who works out a lot. And when she was there we got into an argument. She kicked me in the stomach and floored me instantly. While I was on the ground she started to yell at me telling me I'm a weak little ***** and can't even handle a girl. I got up and swung at her, but she leveled me with a punch to the face leaving me dazed. She made me kiss her boots to get her to stop while degrading me. Then pulled my pants off and had sex with me. She said that I'm her slave for now on. I'm not sure what to do.
I don't understand how I was overpowered by a girl.
well that's a little scary! Id say smack her on the ass so hard she almost bleeds grab her by the hair make her get on he knees and tell her to suck it. just to see if she like to be treated like how she treated you... then you will know by her reaction whether or not the sex life is going to be abusive (not healthy) or really good! Otherwise you could always find another girl that's into rough play an being in control but still cares about you in a relationship so you don't feel like a weirdo... Sorry if that's a bit full on :) Good luck!
Oh please you were not raped! if she held you down what made you get an erection? you were both willing participants in this event, and you are now trying to clear your conscious, I just feel sorry for your poor girlfriend...Bad boy!
Only you can really tell if you were raped. But don't listen to yeths... rape victims, especially men, do get turned on because it's just how their bodies react. And as far as not hurting her back, that's simple. Men are taught not to hit women all of their lives to the point it becomes instinct... I can't give you a sure answer since I don't know what you wanted, but if you do feel violated (and not just in a fun, kinky way) don't be afraid to press charges because of how your body reacted.
Police and restraining order. I know a woman that's a corrections officer and she's a tough woman. Served in the military for 8 years and can kick the snot out of most men. Just because she's a woman doesn't mean it's ok to assault people and then as you stated rape you.
(This is a rare occasion for a woman to assault a man and rape them, but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt.)
Secondly, all these women saying, "How were you raped and you had an erection." If you don't have a penis of your own ladies... don't pretend that you know how they work. An erection is very possible in a man being raped. If he was afraid of her and didn't want to be assaulted again, he's going to get an erection pretty fast so that she isn't upset with him not being hard.
I must say I can't stop laughing after reading this, but coming back to the topic. If you feel she is stronger than you and you can't take her, than ignore her at all costs. If she shows up to your house, just don't open the door or better yet call the Police if you feel your life is being threatened. There are plenty of things you can do to avoid her, if you feel this is getting out of hand than the best solution would be to file charges against her. But make sure you have proof or at least a witness, Police tends to favour females in cases like these.
I don't understand how guys get raped by women. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but I just don't understand it. If someone is beating the sh*t out of me and degrading me, I'm not going to get an erection. It just isn't going to happen, no matter what they're doing otherwise.
I have mixed feelings of your story. Cause one time my girlfriend of a few weeks, wanted to have sex with me after I got out of the shower. I said no cause I was really really tired from work, and I already had sex with her and came before I went to work, and just wanted to sleep. But then she got super forceful and threw me on the bed and pinned me down, and then she said in a very serious voice "i'm not going to take no for an answer, and I'm just going to rape you!". And then she started grinding on me until I was up, and then shoved me deep in her and just f***ed my brains out, until she cam a good 4 times. At first I thought omg I'm getting raped, and it was shocking and scared me at the moment, but then I totally noticed how aroused and and thrilled I was because she was doing this to me. Ever since that night, I would occasionally say no to her just so she can be really rough and forceful, and have her ways with me. I think she is beginning to notice how much I like her super aggression, so that's why now a days she's always hella rough with me in bed. So its kinda hard for me to understand how you could have not liked it when this girl "raped" you. I think it's flattering that a girl would want you bad enough to force you to have sex with her. But probably not everyone is like me, and if you really didn't like it I hope you never have to go threw that again. The reason I'm telling you all this, is maybe if you think hard and deep about it, you might have liked what she did to you. Maybe that's why you couldn't get away.
If you're comfortable with it call the cops, she raped you and might rape other people if youdont stop her, if you dont want that tell you current girlfriend and get here to protect you. If neither of those sound good just work out and take self defense training until you can kick her ass.