I have once been with a woman with an abnormally tight vagina. My finger was tight inside her. Yes, it is hard for a man to get inside. Yes, once inside, it is prone to popping out. Therefore, we could only comfortably pound in a deep fashion, without fear of popping out too often, which leads to hardness issues. I can not last in this specific position or style for very long either, and no, this issue was never had with any other woman. Considering only one out of 50+ women I have been with I ever had this issue with, it is not "normal," (nor is it wrong,) and you may have to find what works for both of you. Sex is a personal story told by two people. If you love him, find ways to accommodate. I would suggest additional lubrication. That should help keep it in. Also, if this is a new relationship, some trust building and bonding may be needed, as total relaxation can help with his staying power both for your relaxation of muscles, and his trust to be one with you. Blaming either of you is not a solution, and will only lead to problems, and probably break-up.
Best of luck...
I'm sorry but after reading some of your responses to some other posts especially this one:
"No, I get really wet. I'm just extremely tight and he has a hard time getting it in and then once it he does its game over. He cums in less than 5 minutes"
Perhaps his frustration is from your tight vagina, but his lack of self-control and that he's a minute man with you. I'm sure it feels really really good based on your description and your background as a ballet teacher, but the fact is that he's more upset with himself then with you.
Tight is great. I don't most guys would complain about tight. They certainly shouldn't blame the girl for it. And she shouldn't be felt to think she has to somehow, loosen it up for him to not be frustrated with his lack of control.
He needs to work on his control and you need to keep your vagina tight. ESPECIALLY, if you and your boyfriend don't last, your next boyfriend will probably appreciated it A LOT. That is of course if he has better control.
Edit: isn't from your tight vagina...
Great answer. Totally agree. He is frustrated cause you are giving him too much pleasure?! That is pretty much what your boyfriend is saying. This does sound like something he is going to have to work on instead of assuming a looser vagina will fix the problem.
You're probably just not getting wet enough. Why would he want you be be loose?...A tight p**** is never a bad thing.
Use lube or have him finger you or eat you out & that should make things MUCH more comfortable
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It's not bad, but it has ups and downs.
Good thing is that penis gets extra rubbing and it feels really good.
Bad thing is that it might be hard to push it inside (if penis is too big or fat) + if it's really tight, this rubbing will make guy come faster.
I have no idea what you can do about it. Ask your doctor, maybe he/she will know.
First off are you tight or are you dry and he thinks your tight. If you are wet and tight mmm that is just the best thing ever. A girl that is almost like a virgin every time you go in her. yet with experiance, that is hot. If you think you are just a little dry then tell him to give you more forplay or to use lube
No, I get really wet. I'm just extremely tight and he has a hard time getting it in and then once it he does its game over. He cums in less than 5 minutes
I love a tight girl. My wife does kegals to stay tight. there is nothing like a tight vagina around my penis. I will admit that the days that she is really tight it is a little hard to control my orgasm. I to have to practace control though Kegals and just taking my time. she also takes control the days she really wants an orgasom. You could try different positions that make you not fill as tight.
I say he can go cry a river, grab a straw an suck it up! Not really, but you know what I mean! I would love to get a tight pussy! Maybe he's just to big or something.
Don't see this as being a problem that you should worry about. This is his problem. works fine for me
make your vagina tight easily try to use myotaut which is help you make your vagina tight
tell him to eat you out first to get it wet
That's a good thing! I don't know why he's complaining.
take some nitric oxide
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