How can I loosen up so I can have and maybe even enjoy anal sex?

I'm really really tight so it hurts soo bad! I have used 3 different types of anal ease as well as various other things that are supposed to numb it but nothing works anymore. If I use a thin vibrator a few times a week, do you think that will help?


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  • an ex-girlfriend of mine really enjoyed anal sex, but she was too tight for me to enter her. she and I found that if we stacked up pillows so she could lay on them on her stomach she was able to relax her anus better, and the angle made it better for both of us. we also had to use a LOT of lube, but I think the position helped more than anything else we tried.