My boyfriend suddenly gets horny during sleepover?!?

[Anonymous]

Well I am 17 years old. but then one day, my boyfriend came to my house. he stayed until like 10:00 p.m. but then it was raining and it was windy and he had to walk home which was really far! so I called his mom/dad. they said that he can sleep there. so me and my parents were okay with it. [BTW, it was Friday] when it was 2:30 A.M, we finally went to sleep. but then at around 2:40 I felt something touch my bottom private part [it was going in and out, BTW if you don't know I figured out it was his fingers]. it sorta hurt. and then I woke up, my vision was blurry because I was so tired. and then he smiled [ALSO HIS NAME IS Jeremy] and then he told me to go back to sleep and he said that my private part was red and he was going to massage it, [ I was like WTF]... the truth is I was so tired that I just went back to sleep. [it stopped around 3 or 4 o' clock A.M.] when I woke up at around 9 or 10 o'clock a.m I felt weird and really tired. [usually I am never tired when I sleep late] then my private part started to hurt a lot. I check the bathroom and I pulled down my skirt and thong. I noticed my private part was red. my boyfriend got up and said 'good morning' all happy. and then he was like what's wrong and he hugged me from behind. I notice his left hand was rubbing my right breast. I grew scared! WHAT DO I DO HELP ME :( [ sometimes he still does that for the past 1 month]

[toulouse]

Your bottom private part- do you mean your butt or your vagina?

*& Why would you let him continue fingering you if you were uncomfortable?

You say wtf here but did you say that to him?

As for he still does that for the past month, - what does that MEAN?

I would like to help, but I am not sure what you are worried about, even what actually happened- info on at least one of those would help so much - :-)

[toulouse]

Also, by red do you mean bleeding or inflamed, but anyways why was he even looking at your private? I don't understand how all this happened & how can you go back to sleep if you re in pain with someones finger up your butt/ vagina? Could you please re-describe the important parts - you may need to see a doctor. & Dump you -boyfriend..... :-)

[nate18]

Your boyfriend seems t think that's ok and you don't either tell him to f*** off and never do it again or just dump him

[toulouse]

Exactly I don't even understand what the question is. & I am not sure, but if the he still dies this sometimes for a month, means he is still doing it a month later, then she needs to dump him, get a therapist for keeping him around all this time.

[Edwardcullensgirl1]

Sweetie it sounded like he raped you this sounds very serious have you been sexually active with him before? How long have you two been dating? Either way he shouldn't have touched you in a sexual manner without your consent. You should talk to him about him and tell him you didn't enjoy that while you were sleeping

[sunshinee]

Oh my god...... he didn't rape her.

[Edwardcullensgirl1]

Well it sure sounded like it touching her or putting his penis inside of her while she was sleeping and had no idea what was going out seems like rape to me

[katiesmuff]

Ok! Lets do this slow. You are 17 and your parents let your friend sleep in the same bed with you? Where were those parents when I was growing up! LOL

With that said what would you expect any red blooded teenage boy to be doing when it is the middle of the night and he is in bed with his gf?

[Anonymous]

sounds like he had anal with you while you were sleeping.i think that's kinda rape. by private you do meen your ass right? girls have 2 privates and there very close to each other. besides it didn't sound like there was any sort of lube, so your probably chaffed. go get yourself checked out.

[abusauce]

haha I'm like that too, I dno what it is about being the girls house with everyone asleep that turns me on, I do know that hormones fly like crazy when your in bed/waking up, I meen who wouldn't get turned on if their in the bed with their girlfriend in a risky situation ;) its kinky :P

[toulouse]

Umm , Do YOU know what she is talking about? Did you READ the post ? I hope not -other wise your answer is kind of sick, at least ignorant anyways.... &Why should it be 'risky' ? You are supposed to be able to control yourself in those situations... Do you know what self restraint is, do you know what jail is? :-)

[nate18]

Ya douche but she clearly didn't like it and she was asleep. its diff if your the only 2 awake still. but she wasn't. he told her to go back to sleep. its not really the same kind of thing.

[abusauce]

Lmfaoo retards, did I say to rape her no idiots, did is ay when she's asleep do that noo, lol some peopel are actually into that her boyfriend could be, I'm talking about the girl being up too, haha wow you kids have sick minds, all she has to do is say hey BOB I don't like that, or hey bob I'm asleep not tonight, no one every said it had to be risky, I'm saying some people like taking fun risks, it creates a mood, ammatures