My best friend just told me she used to experiment with cousins.... Is that so wrong??

She just told me how she and her cousins... Guy 1.5years older and girl 1 year younger... She wasn't ashamed of it but realizes what people would think... Personally I don't know what to think, she made it sound so normal and exciting but society says it's wrong. Although there are many many cultures and religions that encourage it... So what's your thoughts?
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  • When I (male) was in the 6th grade and my cousin (female) was in the 9th grade My cousin was telling me funny stories about boys and I was telling her about a girl I liked. I was staying at her house and we slept in the same room. At this time I was already in puberty and learned about porn because of other guys at school. She told me about a guy who touched her butt and said he was kind of weird. We were laying down in a way where my head was between her shoulder and chest. Not in a sexual way, this was in a more in a way an older sister would sit with a younger sibling. By the time we started talking about the boys (at her school) and girls (at my school) at our school we were just leaning on the headboard. She told me about the dude touching her butt and complimenting her boobs. Then I brought up how I accidentally touched my teacher's breast at school (i bumped into her). My cousin was only 13 but her breasts were pretty big. She was already in a d cup in middle school. She is also on the more curvy side (not fat and chubby, I mean a bit voluptous but a nice shape. Something akin to Iskra Lawrence before weight loss. She told me about how she accidently saw a penis at the y when she was younger and i told her about my boner in class. Eventually I touched her boobs as a demonstration for the time I accidentally touched my teacher (i was a 12 year old in the midst of puberty and new to porn) at this point I just saw a girl with a curvy body and nice figure who was fairly busty. Eventually (after some kissing and demonstrations later) I began to finger her and kiss her breasts and I got faster and faster, put in my fist and made her squirt just a bit and she let me cum on her body (she started jerking me off halfway through the fingering) and she squirted a small amount of liquid a few times and I glt curious and used a full fist and she had some creaminess and then I eventually cam as well onto her thigh. I was NOT proud of it but yeah.

  • well, as someone who has actually been in the same boat as your friend. I have to say that it is defiantly a grey area. As you said many cultures encourage it, I know many muslims encourage and enforce it with arranged marriages. The same thing happens in many cultures. In fact I used to work with a muslim guy who was married to his cousin, it is actually normal for many of them.

    As for me, it was a great chance to experiment and discover our bodies and have fun doing it with some close. Of course there is a big risk of people taking advantage of others and that should NEVER happen!

    Like your friend my experiences are not something I would openly share with anyone because of the stigma it has, even though we enjoyed it, still treasure it and regret nothing at all, I sitll look back on our times as some of the most exciting and fun times... I realize there will be plenty of people here who will judge me and condemn me, but at the end of the day it was between consenting people who never regretted it and loved our times together. I know its not for everyone, but as I said earlier, many cultures encourage marrying cousins!

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  • Well, as long as it is "experimenting", I don't think its wrong.

    You know the saying, "there are no rules in love and war"? Well, they should add sexuality into that saying, because really even things that can be thought of as weird and creepy suddenly become acceptable when the topic is sexuality.

  • It's normal. Sexual play in children is normal.

  • I think its a little wrong but if she's confident with herself doing that and not being ashamed she's is a strong diverse thinker that doesn't let little things stop her I guess she's fine in the head she was just curious at the time

  • I would never presume to know better than lust.

  • Yeah, been there, done that... well, half of that...

  • Society is a hypocrite, everything is all politically correct nowadays and it's pathetic.

    While I don't encourage incest, I do highly encourage experimentation. In this situation your friend sounds like a human being human.

  • once apon a time our only option were cousins, relatives, relations etc, so I guess that's where we all came from,

    if that never happened we would not be here...

    i read an articly that there is a brain mechanism that we are born with that actually discourages us from making sectual bonds with people we grow up with from early childhood, including siblings, cousens and non related people

    but there will always be a stigma about it..

  • Pedro doesn't know what you dingos get up to in Australian, but he does know that in Mexico, if you ain't doin' it with your cousins...you ain't doin' it no good!

    Pedro's thoughts are that as much as he wants to be your amigo, you wouldn't appreciate the fine ride and good times he could send your way, so you should just get with your friend and her grand mammy, and get yourself some bean buritos! They are soooo fine, just don't go trying any put them in your urethras!

    In no time you will be partying just like sexy time at Pedros.

    Are you hairy womans?

    Pedro loves hairy womans and cousins.

    Love

    Pedro

    • ?!?! ..... No comment... (-1). I would give (-3) if I could.

    • Somehow the braying jackass you chose for yourself seems the most apprpriate avatar I have ever seen on here.

  • ew that's nasty .

  • was it incest? cause "experimenting" is incestuous but it depends how far they went... I personally find it alittle disturbing but have had thought of it myself with one of my cousins also but I never dare try anything and don't plan to... I've actually come across a few things on the net where people talked about having sex with their siblings and I even came across an article where a women talked about how her and her brother would often have sex even when they were dating other people and now day her brother is married and they are no longer having sex but she is alittle envious of his wife