Soo my boyfriend's penis is small...

It's like 4 1/2 - 5 inches. I've never had a real orgasm,only one by rubbing myself on him. I can't feel it inside me,I really love him though. I was just wondering if sex felt any different with a bigger penis..like 6-7 maybe. Lol
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Just to clear it up, I DO love everything about him, including his penis. I'm not making fun of him or complaining.
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  • are you using a condom? condoms do that for me and my boyfriend is five inches.

    is he your first have you had sex with bigger people before him?

    You can try tighting you vaginal muscles by doing vaginal exercises

    use positions for smaller penises like

    The doggie

    When performed at the correct angle, the doggie can make even the smallest penis feel quite large. You’ll want her positioned in such a way that she’s able to comfortably place her head and shoulders on the pillow, while having her bottom raised in the air. To help create the most effective angle, her back should be arched and her thighs should be drawn together. Not only is this the easiest small penis sex position on our list, but it’s also one of the most popular

    Bite-sized tip: Lean forward during penetration, maintaining as much physical contact as you can comfortably manage; this will keep things intimate, enabling her to reach her sexual peak as quickly as possible.-some website

    dot have him finger you before sex that losens things up

    Only 20% of all women can come by intercoarse alone so your gonn ahve to rub your clit during intercoarse if your not one of the 20%

    Also you mkay have nerve problems if you can't feel pleasure even when you use toys in such...is it just his penis or is it other things as well...things like medications can do that to you such as anti depressents and hormones

    • What do you consider as a small penis?

  • Ok.. so.. It feels different with every person you are with.. But honestly, skill is the most important thing.. If his penis is smaller.. then you should buy a Kamasutra book and try all of the positions.. something should give you more feeling.. If you position it where he is going in deeper then you should enjoy it more.. But honestly, you would probably be surprised to hear how many girls don't ever or rarely get off from their G spot.. I am one of those girls.. I can feel him hitting my G Spot, but it just doesn't happen to me.. My boyfriends is 6 1/2 long.. but I dated a guy before that was much bigger and another that was about the same length but much wider.. I actually prefer the medium size my boyfriend has.. the biggest I had hurt and the widest was ok, but his skills were not comparable to my current boyfriend.

    So basically Size does matter, but skills matter more! Buy that book and hopefully it will help out.

  • Everyone likes different things :) If he's 5 inches but can work it better than a dude with 9 inches then size isn't gonna matter much! It's about his performance and doing what he can with what he was given. In my opinion, my fiance now is VERY BIG but he knows how to work it veryyyyy well - meanwhile with other guys it has just hurt me.

    There are different things that your man can do to give you an orgasm -- not everyone gets it just by having a longer penis. I know many girls that can't get an orgasm from the g-spot and it's gotta be done by the clit. Just find what works for the two of you so you BOTH can get the most out of your time between the sheets ;)

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  • It most likely would feel different because...uhm... there is a difference.

    I'm betting it isn't the length that is the biggest disappointment but also the thickness. He could be a small pencil d*** and you could have a large wide vagina (not an insult, you could be bornthat way) You can try sex positions that feel the best for guys with less endowed penises.

    Copy and pasted from another question I answered to a guy.

    The sex positions that allow for deep penetration are pretty advanced moves. I wouldn't have tried them my first few times I had sex.

    The easiest is probably doggy style, tweaking it for the maximum pleasure. (The angle you go in, how far her knees are bent, if her chest is on the bed or on her elbows, etc)

    Then there is you on top with her legs on your shoulder. (so she is on her back and her knees as close to her chest as possible) If that doesn't give her maximum pleasure I don't know what will haha.

    I'm sure somewhere online you can find the Karma Sutra and that has a list of different positions that should help you out.

  • Being a guy.. A larger penis may hurt more when being entered but no a bigger penis won't make it any better. it is the way he does it. So don't want a bigger one just try other things with him and see if they feel better.

    • That is what I would think I mean if a guy is being all careful it one thing, but guys get carries away I mean people do during sex & if I is bigger more the more it would hurt when he's at it like a jack hammer- I would think. Also how do bigger guys get satisfied, I mean there is only so far into the tunnel, before you hit a wall - right?

    • Well mine is kinda long, but you can't get satisfied just frm the tip, it doesn't all have to go in

    • Thats not true. the best erroneous zones of the vagina are in the culdesac regions callde the pfe and afe zones. to get thes properly you need to have an 7-9 inch penis. why because the vagina elongates to about 8 inches on average. so if you have a large penis you will be able to stimulate the g spot as well as the afe and pfe zones. not to mention the you spot or even the a spot. a 8 inch penis will be able to still stimulate the afe apfe zones when the women is fully aroused and has a relaxed vagina.

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  • The guy who I my virginity to was about that size. I didn't know that sex felt different until I had sex with my second person. I was amazed, to be honest. The only way I could feel the first guy is when we were doing it doggy.

  • I actually heard that if he does have a tiny one a position you can try is to go to the very head of the bed where the head board is be close to it and put your legs all the way back either touching the headboard or around your head if you're more flexible. It is supposed to make it feel like he is going deeper and it allows him better entrance. ; )

  • Most girls that size maters, but the truth is, it is only psychological. You don't feel it inside you, because you are forcing your mind to think that his penis is too small for you.

    The key to the female orgasm is in the brain. --> Have you heard this one before?

  • Most women can't have orgasms from vaginal stimulation alone. If you are looking for that, you'll probably end up disappointed no matter who you end up with. Not feeling him inside you can be dealt with by learning how to do kegal exercises. This will benefit you not just in sex but later in life too, especially if you have kids.

    A woman's vagina is only about 3-5 inches long, even when aroused and although it stretches, larger penises can be uncomfortable. I've had friends who were dating larger men and heard about how much it could hurt if they "bottomed out" and were too deep. If you want to experience deeper penetration, try masturbating first and see if you like it.

  • orgasm requires more then a penis size TRUST ME. You have to have a technique and you have to know how to use your penis fingers your body and the way you look at a girl. If a guy has 9 by 18 it doesn't mean you will get an orgasm because of his size no no no no no. Let him watch a lot of porn they show a lot of good things on it. I'w become pro only because of a porn sites and because I always ask her and adjust things and experiment. My d*** size is 5.5 on 6.7 it is liiitle bit bigger then average and she is most of a times satisfied and she has an orgasm. So it is not about the size it is how you use it.

  • PLEASE USE BIRTHCONTROL! You are not in any way ready to be a mother, an adult, or a benefit to society.

    • Wow. Bitchy.

    • Seriously, I just want to make sure that you are smart, I know, it comes off as BITCHY, but it's the truth. Whenever I read questions like this, I just worry that you aren't using caution. If you play with fire you are going to get burned, all that is important is that the world stops getting overpopulated with unwanted, unneeded children. I'm tired of working to pay for welfare for women who seriously do not need it. I'm disgusted by teenage pregnancy, it's 100% preventable, and no one cares.

  • tell him to eat your pu**y, then maybe you'll orgasm.

  • Perhaps you could allow him to try anal on you. Lube up really good and give it a shot. While you are doing anal, masturbate. See if that changes you mind about his penis size.

    • He'd never do anal,and neither would I :P lol not our thing

  • 5 inches is within what's considered average. It could be that you two are young and you don't know what to do, and instead of trying out different things (positions, foreplay, oral etc.) you think it's all about him and his size. Truth is, each plug needs to fit its socket, and so it's a matter of what girl is the same size as what guy.

  • Girrrl friend... try the big ones:)

  • Not in my experience, it doesn't feel any different. I've been with a guy who was seven inches, and my current boyfriend who is six inches on a VERY good day.

    • How good to hear an answer like yours with some kind of a 'sane' answer, instead of some of the crazy things that many girls come back with.........good for you.

    • She's using a giraffe for an avatar with a private profile! I don't believe a girl wrote that comment. However, girls are likely to agree that if any dimension makes a difference it's girth, not length.

    • Lol, I'm a girl. l: And yes, I agree. Girth is what makes the difference. The only thing length can really do is hit your cervix and make you cry if you aren't 'into' the moment.

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  • yes, I bigger penis would feel different

  • If you love him...and he loves you...you can resolve the problem is some way...

    The big, bigger penis...has a bigger ego that goes with it...keep that in mind too...

    Bruce

  • You would be much happpier if you could get a guy with a 7 or 8 inch penis that has a girth of 5.5 to 6.0 inches. Would fill you up and the feeling is awesome. But do remember it is not all in the size of his penis, but his other talents as well.

    • Why are chicks so f***ing vague all the time....WHAT TALENTS?

    • Like the foreplay, eating the pu**y, massaging and sucking on the boobs, playing with the clit etc

    • Sorry but I don't believe there is any guy on earth with a 5 or 6 inch wide d ick. no way.

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  • The key to the female orgasm is inside your head. Sorry you don't approve of his junk but you should accept all of him or let him go.

    • Yeah you are right...it is proven that (not all) but the main way to reach an orgasm is in your head, how turnt on you are etc...

  • I have heard the majority of women cannot orgasm from penetration alone, and need some sort of clit play or a vibrator.

  • I bet you are...

  • Wider can be good because it presses on the labia and vaginal walls and can pull the clit against the motion of the penis. But longer, not so much as you would think. The excess length passes the cervix and lands in the "fornix (pocket below) which has little sensitivity.

    He needs to develop a technique that presses his penis against the top of the vagina and rubs against the clit and urethra (very sensitive) if possible. You will have better success (orgasm) if he develops skill with hands and mouth to being you to orgasm that way. Since you are capable of repeated orgasms, once you have reached orgasm once, he can enter you while you are still aroused and sensitive and you can come with him inside you.

  • Honestly it wont. The vagina is no more than 4 inches long. and some women get aroused clitorally and others by the vaginal wall. some equally. and whatever whatever..

  • tell him he's getting bigger and he will believe you

    positive reienforcment can help grow with sex and

    mind over matter

    and yes I would assume that it might feel better

    but if never been done so I don't know haha

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