Guys, Are You Insecure About Your Body Hair?

[Idonthaveausername]

I've seen too many posts on here about guys being insecure about their excessively hairy bodies. I'm talking chest, back, arms, and legs. Either it's between a handful of guys or this is a more serious problem than women realize.

So men, are you insecure that women won't find you attractive or sleep with you because of your body hair? Are you insecure about your body hair?

Don't send me any weird pics, please. I want to know this for the psychological aspect it plays in a man's confidence with women.

[Curmudgeon]

I had a poll about this once:

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1284805-ladies-how-hairy-or-smooth-do-you-like-your-men

I guess I just shave or Nair it off or let it grow out depending upon how she likes it. I am easy that way.

[Idonthaveausername]

No, your question was for women's preference. My question is about male insecurity

[Curmudgeon]

Oh, I see. Well, like I stated, whatever works.

[Svengodofman]

No I'm proud of my hair. It honestly makes me more confident lol. I just keep it groomed, and I mean, I'm really goddamn hairy. I don't know any women who think it's a problem, because it's natural. Men have a lot of hair.

[notsoromantic]

You have hairy chest and stuff and women have not complained about it?

[Svengodofman]

@notsoromantic Yes, but I come from a very conservative area too

[notsoromantic]

How hairy is your chest/belly /legs to begin with? Women are neutral or do they bring up oh man that's hairy but it's ok type of thing?

[Svengodofman]

@notsoromantic My arms and legs look like a bear's. My feet even have a good amount. I only have a thin happy trail on my belly, and my chest is ridiculously hairy, I've gotten comments in the past. And some girls have preferred it, others indifferent

[notsoromantic]

Mam that sounds hell lot of hairs tbh. Bear hairy legs and arms... and you don't give a fuck of them and wear shorts and short sleeves in public around women as well? Your upper chest is furry as hell! It peeks out of top shirt button? Ever suffered due to it from women. i mean ever got negative comments?

[Idonthaveausername]

It's nice to see someone can embrace this. I was starting to wonder if all guys with a lot of hair felt this way or if some were OK with it. But you're even proud of it. Good for you, man.

[God_of_Thunder]

I'm not particularly hairy, so it's never bothered me, at all. I've never given it a second thought, honestly.

[AleDeEurope]

No, cause I don't have any body hair, I get rid of it cause I don't like it. I don't have a lot, anyways, but I still like being clean shaved.

[Idonthaveausername]

Shaving all of it off means you're insecure. People who aren't insecure about their hair don't shave it off. I shave my armpits and legs because it would make me feel insecure for people to see that.

[AleDeEurope]

No, it simply means I don't like body hair. Just because I don't like it doesn't mean I'm insecure.

[ShortCircuit]

No. Whether they like it or not, I'll never shave anything off completely. I prefer to keep everything neatly trimmed, but not shaved, because that's what's comfortable for me. if that's a problem she can fuck right off, because she isn't the one.

I'm insecure about a lot of things, but my body hair isn't one of em.

[saksaksakaway]

I'm the exact opposite when it comes to body hair I have a full set of hair on my head but I have no body hair any where else that includes pubic hair I'm not kidding I've always wondered what girls have thought when thay see I have no pubic hair talk about insecure I also have never had a girl tell me her opinion about it what do you think it would be a big help. See attached photo so you can get a better opinion thank-you

[notsoromantic]

Damn wow man wow, you don't even have proper pubic hair and leg hair... I bet you would put women to shame in terms of pubes ;) I envy you man. You are extremely lucky man. How do you personally feel about being so baby smooth and have you ever been in relationships?

[Idonthaveausername]

I'm not going to post my opinion of body hair on this thread because I want some honest answers to my question. But I am a firm believer that your should accept the things you're born with that you can't change. Excessive hair can be removed, but there shouldn't be an expectation for you to grow more. A woman who loves you will love you despite not having any body hair, and many girls find the baby-soft feel and look attractive om a man. I've seen this before where boys are insecure about not having hair and want more "Because it wouldn't make me look as much like a girl. "

[notsoromantic]

Being smooth and hairless is better and more aesthetic

[jman46241]

I'm strangely insecure about not having enough body hair..

[notsoromantic]

What's "enough" body hair for you?

[notsoromantic]

Where do you want more hair and why?

[Idonthaveausername]

@notsoromantic This is valid. I thought about adding something like this I'm the question because I've encountered this previously as well, but I assumed guys would voice this conversation as well. I've met plenty of boys who wish they could grow more body hair "So I wouldn't look as much like a girl". There's also some beard jealousy out there

[notsoromantic]

@asker that's quite odd thing. I seriously wonder why would a man who has been blessed with less body hair naturally want to be more hairy... If I was naturally baby smooth I would have been extremely happy man. And seriously, women don't mind baby smooth male body and faces

[jman46241]

@notsoromantic @asker I was joking!

[capturemyheartnow]

Not insecure.

[Spoderpugish]

When I had just entered puberty I was pretty insecure, but I guess you just get over things

[Stevan7]

Well we can always shave so i don't see why any of us would be insecure about such thing.

[Idonthaveausername]

I wouldn't have created this question if I didn't see a trend.

[JustCallMeLeon]

Im not but i d like to have less. Shaving every few days is boring as hell.

[bruce3]

no ım not