Eh, like any of my likes, sometimes I'm interested in watching sometimes I'm not. But it is definitely in the turn ons. Some nights I just want to do other things more.
Originally I was the one to encourage her to play first. I just wanted her to explore her sexuality a bit. She typically isn't huge into being watched. She gets really self conscious. Normally when she does it she's humoring me, but she does get into it occasionally. I'm trying to work on that aspect of her confidence.
As for me using the toy on her, I mostly find it difficult since I can't really feel what I'm doing. It always feels more like an educated guess than the dead certainty I have with my tongue or hand. Mostly I just let the toys vibrate my fingers that are being applied to her. She's more of a fan of this as I'm a participant, and therefore she doesn't feel the need to perform like she does when I'm just watching.
I absolutely love it.
A girl that can please herself is a girl who is confident, and as I have said many many many times before, especially on my responses, is that a confident is far sexier than anything else.
The watching part is not really that interesting. Its the knowledge that she is pleasuring herself to me that I find arousing. ;)
Just curious... Do you enjoy it when guys masterbate to you? :P
I love it......absolutely love it....knowing that my body...or my actions arouse him that much.... i L-O-V-E it....more than words can say....
I've got guys who love to watch me masturbate or at least play with myself before real foreplay starts. Sometimes they will help out, other times just watch. My live in is not bashful about jacking himself in front of me either.
I have done it before, it was really great. awesome to see how turned on he was by it and it made me feel more confident. And I like being watched so its like a plus plus for me. toys can definitely add a lot to the experience.
I've never tried it but I would like to. It sounds like a big turn on just to see his reactions and what he actually does when we start getting physical with each other. I'm kinda nervous to try it.
I have done it before, once I got over the awkward feeling of doing it for the first time it was great, he enjoyed it as well.
I also like to watch him play with himself.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I don't like to watch her play with herself, its a bit of a turn off and I don't use toys but I like to tie girls up
Really..i think bondage is an enormous turn on...
I like to delay pleasure for a girl, making her want to please herself by denying it until I decide its good for her :)
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