Do guys like it when you suck on their tongue while making out?

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Title says it all.

theyareallcrazy · Accepted Answer

Unless your friends opinions are based on fact (ie: he was just released from prison for rape, or even "He told me yesterday that he wants to ask you out but doesn't know if you'll say yes") or obvious things that you are too love struck blind to see (What do you mean? He told me he was going to give me my credit card back in a week, when he was done driving across the country in my car), trust your instincts.

I learned a long time ago that my friends take on any situation with a girl was far less accurate than mine. Especially the: "Hey man, it's obvious she is flirting with you."

I've given up on taking relationship advice as well. Friends typically don't know NEARLY as much as I do about the relationship to provide an accurate answer.

properplay · Accepted Answer

well your instinct is pretty much a mass computer that calculates everything from primitive drives to conditioned values, and even notices things you may not consciously conceive, and then gives you a "feeling" to act a certain way. so instincts actually way in how valuable you find your friends approval compared to other things you want.

2010atitagain · Accepted Answer

Eh. it's hard to just use one or the other. friends are there for a different perspectives and especially if they have more experience. however, it gets complicated and stupid if these "friends" are not really your friends and try to manipulate you/the situation you're in with their "advice".

I'd say, listen to what your friends have to say, listen to your instinct and decide which is the best course of action/decision to take. (that is, if your instinct differs from what your friends say). In the end, it's your decision, your experience, and maybe your lesson to learn.

Good luck.

ThatGirl84 · Accepted Answer

First you have to ask yourself, how long have you known your friends, do they really have your best interests at heart, have they experienced a similar situation, if you went against their advice would they accept and back your decision as true friends will, are they responsible for your happiness, emotionally and financially.

It's ok to listen to your friends sometimes to get a different perspective but in the end it is YOUR happiness, YOUR decision and YOUR life. Hope this helps

Sarah3 · Accepted Answer

My guy definitely doesn't really like it. He loves the lip thing for sure though when I nibble or suck on it a little not to much to make him bleed but just a little to send thrills!

SgtvonMinden · Answer

Yes, even if we hate her, we still do. But the intensity, and frequency of her running through our minds while acting on these thoughts varies because of these traits. For instance, a girl that is hated, but very sexual may run through our minds more often than a quiet girl whom we barely know. But once we get to know this quiet girl, and we become attached to her, then she will be in our minds a lot.

Hope this helps.

Mankow · Answer

The world stops and everything that used to matter doesn't and the only thing you can think about day and night is that special someone.

clovisx · Answer

Yes, I do enjoy that. I like doing it to her too.

DashingDrew · Answer

its ok every often but I prefer the lip a lot more. But it depends on the guy I guess

lalaberry · Answer

i do it all the time (= my boyfriend gets hard everytimee. he's says it feels like I'm giving his tongue a bj (= so I say go for itt or at least ask em what he wants. just be careful you don't like rip his tonguee out girly.

JohnE · Answer

Like nothin else in the world matters but makin the person you love happy

SloSupra · Answer

lip not tongue

KERMlT · Answer

It's nice but this one girl really got into it and it felt like she was going to rip my tongue out. Lightly sucking their bottom lip is generally a better feeling.

l-hedoniste · Answer

Yes.

soccerbmxwow · Answer

i love it its what my girlfriend does

GIntrovert · Answer

Yes.

ofallthings · Answer

i like it...what my girl does is she sucks on it like it's my d***, it's pretty hot

lv4lv · Answer

No, not always. I've actually been in a few relationships where I didn't have a very strong sexual desire - ever, because I loved her that much.

Mike67377 · Answer

If a guy is interested in a girl then yes he has had sexual thoughts about her for sure. It'd be a lie to say that we didn't. It's just on some guys' minds more than others. I would think it'd be the same for girls too.

Flower-petal · Answer

Good question! I love to do that

ANDRECOETZEE1000 · Answer

No, not me. If I truly liked someone, this would not be a thought. If it was a fling - 2 week stand, yes.

uphoria · Answer

No. Men are visual, but I doubt a big mouth is a problem for you. Happy people are more fun to be around too, and it sounds like you are. No problem here, first sentence says it all.